Press Release: Collen "Sikelela"'s Launch.

This is to inform the general publish that Collen Khalishwayo is at it again.

The nation wide popular song "Sikelela" is due to be launched by the popular Collen and you are cordially invited to join the august celebration where he has lined up a handful of both South African artists and other African artist.

In a statement released by Collen saying "Kwaito will never die!" cementing his comeback as a performing and recording artist after having two albums under his belt. The artist who is open to collaboration as a way to further solidify his commitment to making Kwaito/Hip Hop last forever.

In so doing; your quest for undiluted Kwaito music will be satisfied on that day as these following artists are coming to entertain and make your Sunday the best ever:

Invited artists: Themba Thwala, General, Mbuzeni Wavuma, Slabsta, Mduva, Season, Chealex Mpanza, 031, Angola, 3Gee and so much more!

Here's more information about the launch below:

Day: 1st July, 2018 (Sunday).

Venue: The Republic of 94.

Address: 94, Juta Street, Braamfontein, Johannesburg.

Time: 4pm till late.

Gate fee: Free for invited guests with IV and R30 for Sikelela single CD will get you in!

For more information please contact organizers:

Unicorn Media & Communications in association with Khalination Productions

YOU JUST HAVE TO TELL THEM.

Showing affection for a man is not natural, he is a man, not a woman. You can't expect him to move from being masculine to being amazingly romantic on the wedding day, these things take time especially if he wasn't a play boy when you met him.

Don't expect her to be a sex super star immediately after wedding, especially if she lacked previous experience or wasn't a prostitute! A brand new bride can't be be an expert at the 62 sex styles on her wedding night and beyond!
Romance, love, affection, submission, financial management, understanding and intimacy take time to build in marriage, it doesn't jump on anybody!

Do not build unrealistic expectations in marriage. A successful marriage requires a great deal of patience and hard work. The Bible says, "love is patient and kind". Patiently, lovingly and maturely teach your husband how to be romantic. Bear with him when he fails.

Teach him how you want to be addressed, treated, responded to, etc. If you want him to hug you a lot in public, tell him, if you don't like the way he shouts at you, nicely, maturely tell him. He is human, stop treating him like a criminal or a wicked human being who is all out to hurt you. He will make mistakes while learning, give room for that. Marriage is a place to allow your spouse be themselves while trying to get better day by day.

Don't abuse her is she's not respectful enough. She's not used to having a man tell her what to do with her life 24/7. Be patient, win her trust and respect, with time, she will learn to submit to your leadership with deep reverence and honour.

If she is sexually "incompetent", teach her. My husband taught me how to kiss him. Take her hand to where you like to be touched and teach her how you want her to perform. Buy good books on marriage and sex for her, read the books together, learn together, grow together, change together. Be flexible, adapt, adjust, shift for one another. Submit to one another.

In courtship, talk. Tell each other how to be treated in marriage.
Open your heart to each other, prepare for a blissful marriage.

If you are shy, you don't know how to talk to your partner/spouse or don't know which issue you should address or deal with in your courtship/marriage, read my ebook: "Lies That Break Marriages," it will help you a lot.

Communication is easier, sweeter and flows easily when you marry a spouse who loves you unconditionally and accept you the way you are. It's fun when you marry your best friend and soul mate. Read "How To Attract Your Perfect Soul Mate" if you need to find your own partner seriously. You will not mischoose in Jesus' name.

Perhaps you are sick and tired of searching and getting disappointed over and over again and age is no longer by your side, you need to get connected to your spouse this year and get married soon, read "Overcoming Marital Delay," it will teach you the things you need to do to put an end to your frustration and get married gloriously to your own partner made from heaven. Each ebook cost five hundred naira only. You will get them in your email after payment. Inbox me or send me Whatsapp message on 07081017218 to know how to get your copy.

For those in the United States, Australia, etc, it is 2 dollars only, South Africans get it for 25 rands and Kenyans get it at 200 Kenyan Shillings only. So cheap, so affordable, so easy to get. I look forward to hearing from you. 

Thanks for reading. 

God bless you. 

Cheers!

© Seun Oladele.

YOUR WIFE DOESN'T WANT SEX, SHE WANTS SEXUAL SATISFACTION.

Most wives don't enjoy sex, only a little percentage does and the little rarely gets orgasm except by the mercies of God. Very few wives are 100% satisfied during and after sex!

Look, stop going in and coming out without touching your wife. That is a criminal offence! It is called rape and your manhood deserves to be "jailed" for at least a month where it will receive good orientation about quality sex before resuming duty again!

No woman enjoys sex without romance! You can't just jump on her and thrust away without caring if you are dealing with a human being or an animal!

You don't just make love to her body, you make love to her spirit and soul as well!

Learn to talk sweetly to your wife before sex. Praise her, admire her, appreciate her and show lots of tender, loving affection. Hug her a lot. Give a gentle back, neck and feet massage. We need it after a hard day job. Help her with chores, what's more romantic than that?

Learn to touch her from head to toe. From the crown of her head to the sole of her feet. Each part of her body counts during sex. Learn to caress your wife, stop squeezing her like a dry orange.

Kiss her softly, stop sucking her lips and tongue. Learn to make good use of your tongue during love making. Women love it. Don't be rude to your wife in bed please. Ensure she is ready before you travel to Jerusalem, if she is not, it is your fault. Re-start the process again.

Don't jump into her like a trailer with failed brake on express road. Be slow at first, increase in tempo later. She will love it.Your tongue and hands should keep working during that process. Which wife wouldn't love that? That process leads to complete sexual satisfaction and if excellently handled, orgasm!

No woman wants sex, she wants sexual satisfaction. If you handle her right, she will give you the best of her self including her deepest love and respect.

Shabby love making is making more women abandon their marriages. Don't lose her before you do the needful. Sexually satisfy your wife and some of your quarrels, misunderstanding and fighting will automatically vanish! May the Lord grant you understanding.

Please, share on every man's wall so they can learn from this.

Thanks for reading. 

God bless you. 

Cheers!

© Seun Oladele

JUST TELL ME I AM BEAUTIFUL.

Any lady who says, "I don't care what any one says, I just dress the way I like" is telling a big, fat lie!

We love to be admired, especially by the opposite sex, it is an inborn thing. Whether consciously or unconsciously, you want a man to drool over you, whistle, get magnetized or simply pursue you so when my darling tells me my body drives him crazy, smokes of love ooze right out of my head!

Thank the good Lord for the breasts and buttocks, all women know men don't joke with those so we package, re-package and make them conspicuous, desirable and stir the men up. Nothing bad if it is done for your husband, you are seen as smart and commended for the great work of seduction you are doing but outside marriage, it is real wahala!

The breasts and buttocks are designed by God to drive a man's testosterone wild for sex. It's not his fault, he is wired that way. So when you wear skin tight trousers or skirts showing the very shape of your buttocks and skin tight tops with super low necklines showing the cross in between your breasts with heavy Mounds on each side, he wants sex automatically. You are seen as a sex object for his sexual release. Yes, he will give you a hot chase, not out of admiration for your person but for your "natural endowment" and when he is done, he dump s you for someone else.

Don't attract a man to your body, it will get him sex and nothing more. Attract him to your character, expose your character not your body. Expose your brain! Let men know you are intelligent. Men love intelligent ladies. Read wide, be knowledgeable and contribute meaningfully to discussions.

Expose your character. Be loving, friendly, caring, humble and generous. These are qualities that attract men for marriage not just for sex!

Yes, be admirable, be attractive. Men will always look at outward appearance only God looks at the heart.

Dress smart, make your hair, clear all the rashes from your face. Wear shape fitting clothes. Be clean, be tidy, be neat. That is enough.

You don't need to bring out your thighs, buttocks and breasts, you will look like a prostitute. Those assets are meant to be exposed to your husband in the bedroom not for every man on the road. I hope you understand? 

May the Lord grant you understanding. 

Thanks for reading. God bless you. Cheers!

© Seun Oladele.

ADD FUN TO MARRIAGE.

Make marriage fun, lively and so sweet for you and your spouse. Be creative, be alive, be fun to be with, spice things up.

Surprisingly, I'm not just referring to sex or romantic gestures. We all know marriage is definitely more than sex. I'm also referring to those "old school" things we think do not matter but will definitely shake the foundation of our marriage and take it to a deeper level of love, higher level of romance, deep, passionate, love making and the icing on the cake, more bank alerts from hubby to wifey. Wants to try it?

1. LEARN TO KNEEL DOWN FOR HUBBY that is if you are a Yoruba or married to a Yoruba man. If you are from other tribe, show him your deepest level of respect. Don't hiss baby, it sure works like fire! Come on, you don't have to do this daily. Once in a while, when he is not expecting, greet him at the door on the knees or when he buys you something, that shocking surprise on his face will be monumental and you will love it too.

Your dad didn't train you to kneel? Me too. Imagine my dad asking me to stand up as if I would break my back while kneeling to greet him. I taught myself to do it for hubby when I want to show him how deep I respect him, though he says, he doesn't want me stress my back but that "boyish" smile on his face shows he loves it, xoxo!

2. WAKE HER UP WITH A KISS: Okay, this one sounds romantic. I feel as sweet as Cinderella when hubby rouses me from sleep with his soft lips on mine and a gentle, loving hug...awwww, how does heaven feel like? Something like that? We are not talking about sex here bro. I mean that loving affectionate touch, every wife loves it. Learn to wake her with a display of affection, she will think about you all day.

3. CALL AND SAY "I MISS YOU" just ten minutes after he leaves the house. What's as romantic as your wife not wanting you out of her sight? Just 10 minutes and she's already missing you? Wow! We all loved to be missed by our loved ones, it makes us feel so special. If you feel ten minutes is too short then you can extend yours to an hour or more. Just let your handsome dude knows you love seeing his face all the time.

4. FLIRT WITH HER IN PUBLIC: Yooo, yoooh! I must confess some men hate this baaah! They can devour their wives in bed and be more romantic than Hrithik Roshan as long as it is in their bedroom, but public? Hell, no! Easy brother, calm down, take a glass of cold water and breathe in, breathe out, alright. Don't faint before you start, okay?

Flirting with her in public is no big deal. Look right, look left, no one watching, give a playful slap on her bum and keep a straight gaze.

Quickly steal a kiss while in the car or send her flirty messages while close to each other. Tell her she's beautiful in a sign language you both understand. Wink sensually at her or give her the "you drive me crazy" kind of look. O la...lah... expect passionate love making that night bro. You did a great job.

Alright couples, here we have our little romantic tips for a hot sizzling marriage today. Mature singles, you can learn one or two things ahead of your marriage.

Don't practice now a beg. Don't tell God I pushed you into fire, (laughing). Sex is so beautiful when it is done at the right time, that is in marriage. Keep your virginity at all cost. You will be glad you did. 

Thanks for reading. 

God bless you. 

Cheers!

© Seun Oladele