Saturday, 28 May 2016

MY AFRICAN LADY: People in my community.

With a heart filled with pains and bitterness, I stand to write about the plight of an African lady...

Most often when I look at what is done in the name of love, my tears form a rivulet. The pains and tortures African beauties go through for love.

BEFORE THE BEGINNING...

She is on her own enjoying the sweetness and pains of life. She never tasted love even though her heart yearns for it. She is scared because she doesn't want to be hurt. Her life was incomplete, she knows that but she wasn't complaining and even if she was complaining, definitely not to you...

AT THE BEGINNING...

You came with your deceitful heart and presented her with a chance to feel love. She was scared because she has never loved. She confided in you & told you her fears but you convinced her with fake promises. Assuring her of the safety, care and excellent love you would never give. In her naivety and innocence, she gave it a trial.

Well,

Initially, you were not far from what you claimed to be. You gave her supposed safety, supposed care and supposed excellent love. As days pass by, her genuine love for you increased. At a point, she couldn't eat, think or do anything without your thought. You've taken over her life, her mind and conscience. Everything about her is you. You discovered that she madly belongs to you, you smiled sheepishly and cursed her in your heart...

Next,

You ask her for sex. You know she has never done it before and was scared. But you assured her of how much you love her and would love to marry her someday. She wasn't sure of your words and she had a basic moral training too. But you, against God's words, preached on the importance of pre-marital sex to her. After the battle and tussle, she ignorantly gave in. In those tears and pains, you satisfied your human nature, leaving her to her blood droplets. Aftermaths, you consoled her and promised never to leave her. She nodded in pains and tears, believing your "truthful lies"...

AFTER THE BEGINNING...

Several sexual escapades followed. Each day of sex, her love increases but yours decreases. She never noticed it because you were pretending.

At a point,

you couldn't pretend anymore. You thus resorted to fault finding. You beat her at will and accused her of incessant nagging and throwing of tantrums. She was no longer that innocent girl you once madly loved. She suddenly became a small girl who knows nothing. She automatically lost all values. She was broken & her beauty faded. Tears became her drink and pains her food. You saw all these but you were heartless enough not to be moved. She thought of how many men she despised and rejected because of you, the sacrifices she has done, the years she has wasted, the abortions she has done, the infections she has treated, the insults and humiliations she has been through and most importantly, her virginity...

Darkness enveloped her world. She would open her eyes but would see nothing but failure. Her ears hear nothing but disappointment, her mind thinks nothing but pains and her head is filled with those hitting thoughts of regret...

THE CASE...

You laugh while she cried. You tortured her golden heart of love. You subjected her to all forms of inhumanity because you want her to leave.

At night,

she weeps silently on her bed, cursing life and nature; while you slept in happiness and joy after chatting or phoning "the latest catch".

You were celebrating a victory you weren't so sure of...

Finally,

she decides on one of three things.

Either to kill herself or never to love again or to make other men pay...

THE VERDICT...

Her tears has reached heaven and your purnishment awaits you for there is ‪#‎Karma‬, the law of retributive judgement so whatever that goes around, comes around. You can't avert the purnishment...

TO MY AFRICAN LADIES...

Don't make anybody feel so important that he can destroy you. You are specially made and thus no one can ruin you. If he no longer value you, forget about the sacrifices and move on...he's simply a coward and again, you're too special for him to handle.

Dust yourself and be strong, someone better is coming. Vomit him and never go back to that vomit because he who abandons you once can abandon you again...

Men may be strong but you are stronger. They may be smart but you are smarter. They may be good but you are better that's why ‪#‎Adam‬ was so scared to exist without you.

TO THE MEN...

This is the voice of a ‪#‎Misogynist‬ so don't think I have written to defend the ladies. I am a ‪#‎Writivist‬ so I stand for the bitter truth. You may say some girls are worse. Well, I don't doubt that but bear this in mind. Any girl who is that bad now must have passed through this experience.

Value your lady. Do not make void promises. Stand for her love so that you won't loose a diamond while you're busy collecting shiny stones...

Adore and cherish MY AFRICAN LADIES!!!


By Maazi Kalu Uche Lux-Sanctus.

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