Tuesday, 26 July 2016

Some Uncommon But Important Facts About Love You Must Know.

It's commonly said that what you don't know cannot kill you but a more better version of it is that what you don't know can really destroy you if you do the wrong thing.
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When it comes to love, everyone believes they know everything or something about it, yet you wonder why some people still experience issues in the relationship.
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What you don't know has the tendency of hurting you if you are ignorant of it when the need comes. For instance, you can't expect to enjoy a loving relationship when you don't know what you ought to do and what you're not to do.
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What are the not so common but important things people don't know about love.
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1. You don't prove love, it's a nature you manifest
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Love isn't a scientific postulations that you prove like the principle of a floating object or a quadratic equation formula. Many people have been told to prove love, only to go the length of proving what love is not.
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Love is a nature you manifest just like a kind man naturally expresses his act of kindness. But when you don't have a thing, there’s every tendency to try and prove what you don't have or understand.
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Why should you prove what you have in you? You don't have to 'touch' her to know if she loves you. It is the lack of the understanding of love and also what they don't have that has made lots of people to prove love in the wrong way.
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2. You don't express love with sex before or outside marriage
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The highest form of expressing love is through sex and it is in marital sex.
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When singles express love before marriage, it's fornication and it's motivated by lust. And when the married people express love outside their matrimonial bed, it's called adultery which is influenced by lust and covetousness.
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The best place to express love in its highest form is in marriage, a place where God delight its expression and where you stand no risk or fear anything. It's wrong, ungodly and an act of uncleanness to express love with sex before or outside marriage.
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3. Love's God's nature expressed through your emotions
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Many had wrongly defined love and several others had based their understanding of it based on what they're told or what they saw in movies.
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God is love and His nature in us helps you to express it through your emotions. If you don't have God's nature in you, you're express the carnality in your nature as lust.
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Remember, you can't always give what you don't have. Only a man who has God's nature in him can express love the way he ought to and this is the love that's pure, not wicked or evil.
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4. Love is not a feeling because feelings are temporary
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Many people have misconstrued the fact about love. Love is not a product of your feelings because feelings are temporal. You may have a romantic feeling towards a person today and tomorrow that feelings will never exist.
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Mind you, feelings doesn't have the capacity to stand the test of time when they're subjected to the furnace of reality.
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When responsibility, sacrifice and commitment is hinged on a love motivated by feelings, it'll definitely give way. So don't build your love on feelings, imbibe the nature of God so that you can express it.
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5. A love relationship requires work to making it work
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If all that matters in a love relationship is romance and romantic gestures, then it'll be easy to make a relationship work when you buy books that teaches you 101 romance tips.
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Love cannot work if the partners involved fail to make it work. And it requires real work: sacrifice, reasonable compromise, time, commitment and having the right perception about love and relationship to making it work.
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Since it takes two to mingle, it takes two willing people to make a relationship work, despite any challenges, they'll be committed to seeing it succeed. But when you're in love with someone who's bent on leaving the kitchen when the heat is much, your love relationship won't succeed no matter how you try to make it work.
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And importantly, before you fall head over heels in love with a person, be very sure you're in it with the right person. A pilot can't fly a plane successfully when he has a lawyer has his co-pilot, they can't help themselves.
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6. There's a time to be in love
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Don't open your heart to love when you're not ready to pay the price or you're having the foundation of your life undone. Doing the right thing at the wrong time doesn't make it right. Your can't pursue love and at the same time build your life, put first things first!
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Learned something? Add this few points to your body of knowledge. Love is not to be proven, it's a nature that you manifest. The expression of love as sex is not to be done before or outside marriage but only in marriage. And if you're not ready to work, don't venture into a love relationship at the wrong time.
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© Mayowa Adeniyi 2016

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