Tuesday, 2 August 2016

Ladies – What Would It Cost A Man To Get You?

Marrying a rich man is not a license to a 'rich' marriage. Look beyond the physical and let God guide you otherwise you'd trade your happiness for riches. I do not say you should marry a poor man but look beyond the money a man has.
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For every goods and services that is bought or rendered, there’s always a price tag. The price tag placed on an item describes the worth and value to which it carries.
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There’s a price tag on every woman you tend to find. When I mean price tag, it simply means what it would cost a man to find them, either for serious relationship or not. Do not forget that a man does the finding of a spouse and not the other way round, you’ll become to cheap to source for a man yourself.
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Proverbs 31:10 talks about how priceless is it to find a virtuous woman but today, most ladies are easy to get once a man knows how to get into their heart.
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Some ladies are cheap to get, some fairly expensive or very expensive. The cheap ones are gotten through ‘cheap’ means and the expensive ones made themselves so through their adornment and external features. But the price of a virtuous woman is far above rubies. It takes a man, I mean a man to pay the price in finding her.
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Dear ladies, what would it cost a man to find you for a serious relationship? The following points are usually the price tag placed on most ladies.
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1. Money
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It’s often said that ladies love money, I don’t know how true this is but oftentimes a large number of the female folks loves to marry rich men or those who are already made.
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If you love money and the things that it can afford extremely and it determines your choice of selecting a man to marry, it only shows how covetous you are and a liability in the making.
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When you turn down a man’s proposal because he’s not rich or well-to-do as you do, you’ll end up missing the one God meant for you. A man that’s not too financially buoyant who’s God’s will for you is far better than a rich man who has everything you wanted in life.
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Marrying a rich man is not a license to a ‘rich’ marriage. Look beyond the physical and let God guide you otherwise you’d trade your happiness for riches. I do not say you should marry a poor man but look beyond the money a man has.
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2. Material items
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Love isn’t induced or conditioned and any marriage built on the foundation of material items would collapse when there’s a famine of it.
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Dear ladies, don’t think that because he buys you gift and all the things you need meant that he’s the right person for you. Gifts has the tendency to blind the eye.
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If you proposal can be bought, then someone else too who has more may buy you off from him. Don’t auction your marital bliss for gift items. Grow up in material things and be contented with the little you have.
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When you allow material things seem so special to you, you’re only doing yourself more harm now and in the future.
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3. Attention
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That he calls often, comes around when you need him, keeps your company, you enjoy his presence or he becomes the model of your dream man; doesn’t guarantee you a happy home.
He could change all of a sudden when he’s got what he wanted. Don’t let a man buy you off through false care and attention.
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Although, attention is needed in a relationship but it should not be a determining factor in accepting a man’s proposal.
Raise your standard and values above ephemeral things that can be easily bought off. You need more than attention (physical beauty) to get the right partner.
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4. Pursuing God
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The crucial point of getting the right partner is to first get it right with God. When you place your emotions in God’s hand, it would take a man who’s sold out to Him to get your heart.
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How do you esteem God in your life? Does He become number one or the last thing you could ever think of? A major point of reference or your last resort?
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To be happily married is to pursue God more than anything while you’re single. When you do this, only a real man who loves God would be able to get your heart owing to the fact that you know and you’re convinced that he’s the right one.
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If you don’t seek after God, do not expect a man that’s sold out to God to locate you except he goes carnal.
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What’s your price tag ladies? Isaac indirectly paid the price to get Rebecca. Don’t let money, material things, false care and attention to be a platform of accessing your heart. Any foundation that’s not built on God cannot guarantee you a successful marriage. Let God be the major factor that would make a man consider you for a serious relationship, it may look absurd but it’s the best bet.
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© Mayowa Adeniyi 2016.


Note: Mayowa Adeniyi is a Coordinator at Handling Relationship Issues.

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