Tuesday, 25 October 2016

16 Important Questions About Relationship You Need To Ponder On.

Here’s just a compilation of few questions to ask yourself about relationship. Be honest and sincere to answer yourself correctly because what your life becomes in that relationship is a function of the truth/lies you told yourself.
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1. What pleasure is in giving myself as an object to be used by someone who doesn’t appreciate my worth? No boyfriend or girlfriend can appreciate you better than how your spouse would do. A treasure scarcely found is better appreciated than a gold cheaply gotten.
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2. Why give him or her my body only when I’m not 100% sure that he or she love? Many claim to be in love but are infatuated by lust. Love doesn’t disobey God’s command nor violate His law but lust will do.
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3. Why think he’s going to marry you if you go the extreme to please him more than yourself? Quite a lot of ladies had ruined their lives with the hope of getting married to their boyfriends by pleasing him even more than God. Anything you love more than God will destroy your life and destiny!
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4. Why should you waste your time with someone who has no life to build with you? I see lots in a relationship who spend their time and dime on a relationship that leads nowhere. See the handwriting on the wall! If he or doesn’t talk future then your relationship will someday hit the rock.
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5. Why promise her heaven and earth when you’re planning to take her into hell? Truth said with the intent of lies still remains a lie. Don’t make her believe she’s your last resort when you’re still bed sampling other ladies. The seed of lies you sow today will become a greater harvest of regret you’ll reap someday.
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6. Why enter into an undefined relationship hoping it would lead into marriage? Marriage isn’t entered into without an agreement because it takes two to tango. Don’t go into the relationship with ‘hope’, marriage is a covenant mutually undertaken.
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7. Do you think you can know the right person to marry without God? Marriage is God’s agenda and not your own idea. It’s better to you align your life with Him so that you can know His agenda for your life. If you enter the institution of marriage without Him, you’ll face the music yourself when the reality is played.
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8. Will you succumb to pressure, desperation or impatience and enter into the wrong marriage? All these forces will cloud your sense of judgment and prevent you from getting it right. Anything hurriedly done cannot stand the test of time.
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9. Why would you confuse yourself when a part of you tells you it won’t work? Isn’t it better to see the handwriting on the wall than to settle for an imaginary fantasy that doesn’t exist? Withdraw and get a solution to your confusion rather than allow temporary relief put you into bondage.
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10. Do you think playing the role of a wife will make him to marry you? A man becomes a man when he wants to get married, he’ll look for the one that suits him and not the one that makes herself available for him.
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11. Don’t you think you’re going it miss it in the future now that they only appear as what you want? Only God can help you know the one that will suit your life in future. That he or she has everything you want now doesn’t mean they’ll be suitable for your life in the future.
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12. Why would you allow him to be caressing your body or touch you in a sexual way when he’s not your husband? Giving your body to your boyfriend is a greatest symbol of ignorance. You’re not an object for pleasure but a temple of God. If you don’t desist, he’ll go elsewhere when he’s satisfied with your body.
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13. Why can’t you say NO today and save yourself from what the consequence of saying YES would bring tomorrow? Saying NO won’t bring any consequence nor will it put your life in a state of regret but when you unconsciously say YES, you’ll end up lamenting ‘Had I know’ in the future.
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14. Who told you this is the time to flex and catch fun in life? Everyday spent without been accounted for will become a cumulative years of regret. And whosoever loves pleasure is dead while he or she lives.
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15. Do you have a committed relationship with God or with your boyfriend/girlfriend? Putting God outside the box in your life equally amounts to bringing the devil in. There’s no how you can cope without God in that relationship, a life without His guidance cannot guarantee you true peace and happiness in life.
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16. Do I need a relationship now? Relationship is no joke nor is it child’s play. If you are not prepared for it, your lack of preparation will make you vulnerable in that relationship.
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Face what is important in your life: first things first. Relationship is not a do or die affair. Take time to develop your life so that you can handle the demands of relationship when the appropriate time comes.


© Mayowa Adeniyi 2016

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