Monday, 2 January 2017

Dangers of Premarital Sex.

Danger signs are often placed on the road to enable motorists and pedestrians to be warned of the likelihood of hurt or damage. Those who are wise would heed the warning signs but the ignorant will ignore. However, it is commonly said that to be forewarned is to be fore harmed. 
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Sex is a beautiful thing that was created by God for the good of mankind. One of the ways through which you can multiply, subdue, dominate and replenish the earth is through sex. But unfortunately, the devil has made this good thing to be evil while placing it on a platter of fun, enjoyment or being social and exposed. 
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Marital sex is not dangerous but the likes of premarital and extramarital sex are highly dangerous. A dangerous thing might seem good to do but only the wise would see the consequence before tasting the pleasure. 
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What are the dangers inherent in premarital sex? 
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According to a social media article by Olusola Opeyemi, he stated that professionals in the school of psychology said "Getting sexually active before marriage only prepares you for infidelity, nothing else." 
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And if all the world renowned psychologist gives you one thousand and one reasons why you must have premarital sex, God whose foolishness is greater than their wisdom tells you it's wrong (1 Cor. 1:25,27). 
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First. Medically, there are thousands of things that is wrong with premarital sex. Premarital sex is responsible for all Sexually Transmitted Infections and Diseases on earth. Millions of people have lost their precious lives as a result of STIs and STDs. 
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It is also responsible for abortions that take place annually and globally. Some people lost their lives while some become infertile in the process of abortions. Abortion doesn't make you unpregnant, it only makes you a mother of a dead child. 
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It is the causes of HPV which is responsible for Cervical Cancer. As at today, 3 out of 5 sexually active single guys or girls has one STI infection or the other.
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Second. The emotional effect is too grievous to cope with. There's a connection with your emotions and your sexual life, this is more prominent in women. 
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When you have premarital sex, you're emotionally tied to whoever you have it with. This is often the cause of soul tie. Your soul becomes knitted and you won't be free from the bond unless you prayerfully break it. 
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However, soul tie covenant is the hardest to break. This is why you'd see a married woman being tied to her ex after many years of separation. This is a serious matter you don't negotiate with. 
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Third. The psychological effect of premarital sex is that it comes with guilt and condemnation. There's always a guilt and condemning thoughts that comes with every acts of premarital sex. 
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Moreover, when the conscience has been seared with a hot iron of disobedience through frequent premarital sex, it made millions of people become sexual predators, masturbators, porn addicts and porn stars due to their early initiation into fornication. 
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Many are having sexual dysfunctions in their marriages due to their past unpalatable sexual experiences. Millions of lives have been ruined psychologically and emotionally because of premarital sex.
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Fourth. Sex is first spiritual before physical. There's a spiritually unseen fusion that's taking place while the physical act is ongoing. 
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The process of two becoming one flesh is powerfully enhanced through sex. If this is not so, God won't have said that whosoever lie with an harlot is one with her (1 Cor. 6:13). 
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Premarital sex is the only sin that impeached God and chases Him out of His temple, which is the body of a Christian. When premarital sex steps in, God's presence in you steps out. The Spirit of Christ and the spirit of fornication will never cohabit. God forbids it (1 Corinthians 6:15-17). 
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Moreso, you become one in spirit with whoever you have premarital sex with. If they are suffering from one or more spiritually transmitted diseases such as failure, bad luck and so on, you'll also share with them. 
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And for every premarital sex you have as a young man or woman, you are gradually fragmenting your life and destiny. 
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Fifth. Maritally, premarital sex is dangerous to your marital bliss and success. It'll make you compare your spouse's sexual performance with that of the partner you have had it with in the past. This will lead to infidelity, sexual dissatisfaction and also cause sexual disharmony. 
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Studies have shown that those who are exposed to sex before marriage don't usually have successful marriage and this usually cause divorce, physical and verbal abuse. 
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Sixth. Physically, a body that has been exposed to premarital sex can never remain the same. Yorubas would say that "Oju apa kole dabi oju ara" (meaning that a scarred face can't be like the normal skin). 
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In ladies, the effect is highly prominent. They'll suffer from sagged breast, looseness in their vaginas and other bodily effect. 
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Seventh. Other dangers associated with premarital sex are as follows: it makes you suffer unwanted pregnancy, unprepared parenthood, temporal or permanent delay in your progress in life amongst others. 
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So why do you want to ignore all these danger signals and would embrace premarital sex? Don't buy the lies propagated to sell yourself to premarital sex and its consequences. 
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Remember, marital sex was created by God for mankind to enjoy but the devil invented the likes of premarital and extramarital sex to make mankind suffer because he comes to steal, kill and destroy! 
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© Mayowa Adeniyi 2016.

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