Sunday, 19 February 2017

A Real Life Event (Worth Reading)

I decide to eat out this fateful evening almost towards the close of work at a restaurant I usually frequent. After being served my meal, I sat facing a man who appeared to be married because he wears a wedding band. The man who attended to me was married too and they were both talking. 
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Prior to their conversation, other customers who came to eat, a lady and a man were conversing about their dirty immoral escapades in the public. The young unmarried lady was saying some things that weren't fit to be described about the way the man he met was eating. 
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They were both laughing and making jest of themselves and the atmosphere was a bit comedic. Here comes the married man I sat in front who was gisting with a friend of his, the guy who served me food. 
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Below are details of their conversation.
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First married man: My wife can never catch me cheating. You have to be smart and wise. 

Second married man: Really? 

FMM: There was a day that I traveled and on my return, I have forgotten to drop the condom that was in my bag which I used when I was away. The moment I got home and my wife was unloading my luggage, a piece of unused condom fell on the bed. 

SMM: Ah!

FMM: Before she could say jack, I faked a phone call. "Tayo, don't ever put stuffs like this into my bag again. What sort of rubbish is that? (He was ranting at a Tayo that wasn't real). 

SMM: You're smart o. The day my wife almost caught me on my phone. 

FMM: (Quickly interrupted), my two phones are password-protected. She can't ever get to catch me. Once I'm done answering or using my two phones, I close the case and once it's closed, it's automatically locked. You have to be smart on issues like this. 

Me: We made eye contact and they winked and went on bragging about their unfaithfulness. 
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Dear innocent single lady, many of you believe that once you successfully gets married to a man or give him sex before marriage his cheating will stop, that's a costly assumption. A man that's cheating before marriage will cheat after marriage except he's genuinely born again with evidence of sanctification and the infilling of the Holy Ghost. 
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Some will tell you that once a man is disciplined, respects you and loves you; he won't cheat on you. All these appears good for the free thinker but there's a little to how these can last without the fear of God. If a man doesn't respect and loves God, he won't do same for you. 
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These two men appears to be Christians, if I'm not sure of the first one, I'm very sure of the second one. This is why I'd tell you that not all Christians are genuine Christians. And you can never get to know about their cheating escapades if they consider it a game. 
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If you think marriage will change a man, you are on a long thing especially if he's not born again. A man that's born again can be easily renewed by the Holy Spirit, but that which is ruled by his carnal nature can never change even if you change yourself to please him. 
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Why am I writing this? It's sickening to see people thrive in their state of ignorance, yet they make boast of it. It's not a moral code we need, we need a revival that would draw men to God. 
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Dear ladies, I know you might be sometimes innocent and truly in love with a man but it will be better for you not to lean on your own understanding when you want to be married. 
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Pay the price to have God direct you and make sure you acknowledge Him in all your ways. Imagine such cheating husband contact a terrible disease and transfer it to his wife and she in turn lost her life, who do you think would be blamed? If peradventure he gets a cure to his disease and he repent, he'll be forgiven but you'll lose. 
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It's better you pay the price to have God direct you than to die untimely or nurse suspicion because you're married to an unfaithful husband. 
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Dear men, there’s nothing smart and wise about being a cheat. First you are destroying your own soul. Two, you are creating an evil trend for your unborn children, whether male or female, it becomes worse if one of your issue is a male child. God cannot be mocked because whatsoever a man sow he will reap and those who sow to the flesh will of the flesh reap corruption. Real men aren't polygamous in nature, it's a lie from the pit of hell.
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Dear singles, pray very well before you choose him or her. The heart is evil and desperately wicked, you can't know all about a person through your mental, psychological and physical consciousness. Divine revelation is far helpful than your observation. 
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© Oluwamayowa Adeniyi 2017

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