Thursday, 27 July 2017

Dear ladies, beware of guys!

There are very few good ones out there but the wicked ones are much ooo.
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Below was the conversation that occurred between a lady on a radio program I was listening to this evening.
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Lady: Hello ma,
Radio host: How are you?
Lady: I'm fine. I have a problem. I met a guy when I went out with my friend. I don't have any boyfriend then and we exchanged numbers. After some time, we spoke on the phone and I discovered that we liked ourselves.
RH: Ok
Lady: About two years later when we met, he said he want me to have a baby for him. And I was like you that I do not know anything about you. We just met and I have not known your family. He told me not to worry that we will take care of me.
RH: Hmmmm
Lady: Hello, ma. Are you there? (The network fluctuates)
RH: Yes we can hear you.
Lady: He now said he loves me. After that two years. One day, I now discover that I was sick and I went to the hospital I normally use and the doctor did test for me. The test of malaria and typhoid was done but later the doctor said I should go and do scan. I was surprised why scan and I go ahead to take the scan. When the result came out, they told me I was 2 months pregnant and I was surprised because I still saw my period. The doctor told me it happens like that sometimes.
RH: Ok
Lady: I now called my guy and told him. He said he wants to travel out and that he's not yet ready for pregnancy. I now told him what will I do? He said he's not ready that he's still working in his sister's shop and he wants to leave. I now tell one of my friends and she told me to go for abortion. I said Ok and we went. Later, I now discover that I use to bleed and went back to my hospital. The doctor said the abortion they did wasn't successful that a part of the foetus is still in me.
RH: Hmmmm
Lady: I now inform my guy, later, he said I should not be calling him again that he doesn't have my time. I now told my doctor that what will I do? He said they will carry out an operation on me. Ah? Me that I do not have money, where will I get money for operation? After they have done the operation, one day, he called me and told me that he's sorry that I should forgive him. After I have done the operation he was now begging for forgiveness. But I told him I am still bleeding. So one day about 4pm in the evening, he came to my place, the next thing is that I found myself in the hospital, how I get there I did not know. My friend told me I fainted last night and they rushed me to the hospital.
(Conversation continues as I alighted at my bus stop).
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I'm sure you won't guess too far to know the conclusion? So sad. So lamentable. Ladies, whether you like it or not, many of you who are naive might still fall victim to these kind of guys. They play games with your emotions and once they win, you lose.
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Discover your purpose in life. Know God. Be serious with your life and God and don't be too quick to jump at any guy's 'I love you', 'I will marry you'. I pray God will have mercy on her. A word is enough for the wise. But BE WISE!
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Please copy or share on your timeline to help a female friend who would benefit from this. God bless you as you do so!
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© Oluwamayowa Adeniyi 2017

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