Monday, 2 October 2017

6 Ways to Find The Best Life Partner.

Life is a partnership. We partner with people in our workplace, neighborhood, business, school, religious gathering, marriage and so on for a peaceful coexistence and to share a common interest for a specific period of time. 
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In a quest to find a partner when it comes to friendship and marriage, many people have resorted to several avenues to find one whom they purportedly share intimate moment with, only to discover that they have made the greatest mistake of their life.
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Who's a life partner? 
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He or she is some you fall in love with, someone who gets physically or sexually intimate with you but can also disappoint you because they're just human. He or she is someone that can make you happy for a moment but can never give you joy. He or she can mourn with you but can never comfort you. 
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A life partner can stand by you for as long as they exist but when they die, a vacuum will be left in you like the hole in a doughnut. Because blood runs in their vein, they're more familiar with their own ways of life which may hurt you. Certain truths they believe in can put your life in bondage because it may be cultural, religious or carnal.
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Your life partner may promise to be there for you "For better but not for worse, for riches but not in time of poverty, they can stand by you in good health but when your health fails, they may compromise their vows". This is just a natural trait of your life partner. 
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But when it comes to the best life partner, trust me, you'll never regret being friends with them. I have discovered the best life partner and I want to be generous to introduce you to them so that they'll save you from heartache, heartbreak and bitter consequences many people are exposed to because of their friendship or marriage relationship. 
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Who's the best life partner? 
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He's not just a person who is there for you, but he's a person who shares in your burdens, pain, sorrow and joys. He walks with you intimately because he sticks closer than your biological brother or sister. He's more than a father or mother, though He can fulfill that role in your life if by chance you become an orphan. 
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He comforts you when others cast you down. He mends your broken heart when your lover or friend breaks it to pieces. He picks up the pieces of your life and make a wonder out of it. When everyone writes you off, He opens a new chapter in your life and gives your life a meaning. 
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If you do not discover him as a friend, every other friend you treasure above him will disappoint you. 
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Who's this best life partner? 
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JESUS. 
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Jesus is not just a religious leader, He's more than a prophet, His role outweighs being a savior or a lord; He's a friend you can partner with for the rest of your life, here and in the life hereafter. 
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How do you find Him?
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You cannot have access to Jesus through religious means. That you're born into a Christian family doesn't mean you have found Him. And that you have read about Him when you're studying Christian or Bible Religious Knowledge doesn't mean you have found Him.
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To find Him, acknowledge that you're a sinner. If you say you sin not, the truth is not in you and you cannot make Him a liar. Just like the prodigal son, you have been prodigal with the life He gave you. You have used your life to the advantage of sin and the devil. He didn't come for those who are self-righteous but for those who acknowledge their state of sinfulness and desire His mercy. 
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Secondly, believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead. Until you believe, the power of resurrection cannot work for you. When you believe this statement of fact, the power in resurrection works in you and transforms you inside out because it is from the heart that you can believe to righteousness and be partakers of His covenant. 
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Thirdly, confess Him as your personal Lord and Savior. You're not saved by going to church or listening to sermon, you're saved when you from your sincere heart confess Jesus as your personal Lord and Savior. With the mouth, confession is made unto salvation. 
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Be filled with His Spirit. The life of Jesus cannot be evident in you if you're not filled with His spirit. When you're filled with His spirit, He works in your spirit man and kicks out the nature of sin and the flesh in you.
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Align yourself with Him (Discipleship). You can't partner with Jesus if you do not follow Him. The best way to have Him as your life partner is to be His disciple, not just church member or a denominational freak church goer. Jesus' disciples are like Him, they do not take resemblance with men of God or their mentor.
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Fellowship with His Spirit. It is one thing to be filled with the Holy Spirit and it's another thing to partner with Him. Jesus can only be the Lord over your life when you fellowship with the Holy Spirit in prayer, studying of His word and living a life of worship, not religiously but devotedly. 
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Dearly beloved, the best life partner you can ever have is JESUS. If you're not first married to Jesus, you'll have issues knowing the right person to marry and living successfully with the one you are married to.
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Have you found a friend in Jesus? He's the best life partner you can ever have! 
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© Oluwamayowa Adeniyi.

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