Friday, 17 November 2017


I hear this a lot and it doesn't pull a hair out of my head. Truth must be told whether people like it or not. Nothing sets free like the truth. Jesus said, "you shall know the truth and the truth shall set you free." (John 8:32). Only the truth, nothing but the truth will free you from the bondage of masturbation, pre-marital sex, marital crises, financial crises, sickness, hurt and pain, the truth!

Pre-marital sex is on the increase because people are substituting sin with grace! They tell you: "don't worry, Jesus will forgive you and even if you do one million abortions, you will still find a good man to marry". Yes, Jesus will forgive you and truly you will find a good man to marry if you have faith. The wound will be healed but the scar remains till forever. 

The pain of not marrying as a virgin, the fear of not having children due to the past abortions, the STD's, the anger, the trauma, guilt and shame you will spend years battling with till you are patient enough for God to heal you will be there. If you had kept your virginity, you wouldn't need to go through unnecessary guilt, pain and shame! The Bible says "shall we continue to sin that grace may abound?" (Romans 6:1) Of course not! Grace is not an excuse for sin!

Divorce is on the increase everywhere and men of God are even leading the pack! It takes holiness to have a good marriage. There is no two way about it, if you are not holy, your marriage won't work!

Wounded, broken, battered and shattered people due to unhealed past pre-marital sexual wounds are jumping into marriage, transferring these pain and wound on their partners, hurting, abusing, destroying and shattering them. Jumping from from relationship to another will give you pain and you will transfer your wound on your spouse if you don't deal with it. The end result is divorce!

I posted something about virginity in one of the women's groups recently and many of the women were enraged. They didn't marry as virgins and didn't see anything wrong sleeping around before marriage. With mothers like that only God knows if there will still be virgins by year 2040!

Education is no excuse for rebellion and pride in marriage. Most women today are incorrigibly proud, arrogant, rude, abusive, abrasive and men haters! No woman with that kind of attitude will have a good marriage. Who finds it easy loving a sour bitter, quarrelsome person? If your husband is like that, will you enjoy him?

Almost every man on the road including self called men of God now sleep around in the name of grace. Thank God our Lord is a consuming fire and the judgment day of the Lord is coming, judgement will start from the church!

I once posted an article to some women's groups on how they can keep their husbands from affairs, many of the so called educated women were enraged. The comments flew in and would be over 3000 before day was over, 95% of the comments were filled with anger, rage, insults, abuse, hatred, rage and curses! They were too proud to submit to any man, any wonder the man was having extra marital affairs in the first place? If you do not give your man peace of mind at home, another lady out there gladly will! If you make a troublesome, quarrelsome, rebellious woman your friend, your marriage will not last!

Men who treat women like non -entities don't live long, talk less of having a good marriage. If you are wicked, your wife won't submit to you, that is the truth!

Jesus' disciples told Him, "this is a hard saying, who can hear it?" (John 6:60) He has said, "you shall know the truth and the truth shall set you free." John C. Maxwell said, "people don't change until they hurt enough". You will never change until that sin hurts you bad and you won't realize you are dying until someone tells you the truth! Truth hurts but you will change!

Preachers are keeping from hurting people so they won't run away hence the alarming rate at which people sin, have sex and divorce without any conscience.

The bible says "open rebuke is better than hidden love" (Proverbs 27:5). Faithful are the wounds of a friend but the kisses of an enemy is deceitful" (Proverbs 27:6). Better be wounded and come out of your sexual bondage than be pampered and die in sin.

Many have promised not to comment on my posts again when I had very little audience then (about 3 years ago) but I remained adamant because I am doing what God sent me, I didn't send myself. The audience keep growing and God kept doing His work. "I must do the work of Him that sent me and finish is work."

This is God's work. This is what I am sent to do. To deliver people from the bondage of ignorance. To open your eyes to the truth that will lift you from the pit of hell and translate you into the kingdom of His dear son. I am sent to impact wisdom, knowledge and understanding you need to succeed in your relationships and marriage. "I must do the work of Him that sent me and finish his work".

Jesus is coming soon, the trumpet will soon sound, are you ready for rapture? Don't allow 5 minutes of sexual pleasure keep you from spending eternity with God. Heaven is real. Hell is real. Repent before it is too late. God bless you. 


© Seun Oladele

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