Monday, 19 February 2018

How I Got A Church Girl in Bed - Confession Of A Player.

Precisely last year, I leaked a secret about how as a player, I got a lady in bed before I gave my life to Christ. I mean tricks and schemes players use to get ladies in bed, you can inbox me to get the post and learn hereby.
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Today, I'll show you how players get church girls in bed. Do you know that boyfriend and girlfriend relationship is a game of lies, deceit, trial and error? It's a game where you assess a lady's suitability for marriage and hook her down with a promise only to break it afterwards. 
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Don't be deceived, there’s are no too good intention behind dating relationship especially among those who are carnally minded. Those who know what they want will go for what they want without playing hide and seek game with your life and destiny.
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I'll maintain the name Kemi to save her identity as I reveal how I outsmarted this innocent church girl. Don't blame or rain curses on me, I have given my life to Christ and I'm dwelling in the secret place of the most High. If you don't want to be a victim in life, know Jesus - the Way, Truth and Life and be serious with Him.
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Kemi was one of those few decent girls I knew in my neighborhood. She dresses well, very modest and not like the overly religious ladies. She was beautiful and 'fresh', you know what that means. She was serious with her faith but because of the betting I had with my other player friends, I told them I would get her in bed. 
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Just as an hunter would do everything possible to hunt for an animal, trust me, it wasn't easy but I paid the price - time, money and other investment to get her in bed. 
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Shortly after I have found out the church she was going, I joined and pretended to be a serious church brother. I went through all the rigorous training of becoming their church member (foundation and membership class). And later found my way to the department where she served. It's not choir or ushering, I'll leave that to your guess. 
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I became a friend and later her best friend. We spent time together after church and on social media. Thank God for apps like Whatsapp, Facebook and Instagram, it really made the work lots easier.
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I supported her in the things of the spirit, we pray and fast together, did Bible study and share what we both learnt. On the surface, she never discern my intention but beyond the surface, I had something in mind. 
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I did not rush her but took my time. We agreed to keep a godly relationship but can a man take up fire in his bosom and his clothes won't be burned? Because of my intention, I deliberately and patiently broke the boundaries we set. Little by little, I introduced her to kissing with the deceit that there's holy kiss in the bible. Isn't that Paul's admonition to greet with a holy kiss? 
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Hear this, the journey of a kiss doesn't always lead to a better destination, it's better not to initiate it in a relationship than to entertain it. Because kissing among singles is immorality, if you allow a man to kiss you and he continues, a day would come when he'd ask for something light (In Fal's voice).
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Prior to the introduction of kissing, I started off with indecent touches, erotic conversations and sexual compliments. I also found out that she was single, lonely and ripe for marriage. With those discoveries, I appeared with the guise of Mr. Right to perfect my plans. 
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After all my investments had reached maturity, I initiated premarital sex. It wasn't successful at first but you know winners don't quit. I kept trying until I made my way into her. I brought her to my house where I finalized my intention. She couldn't have suspected that my coming into her life was purely pretenseful because I never left any trace of suspicion. 
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I hope Christian ladies would learn from this.
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Permit me to identify the key areas he emphasized in his story. 
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1. Beware of boyfriend and girlfriend relationship. Don't even entertain Christian dating as it's usually coined. What you need is a relationship with God. When it's time, He'll bring the right man your way which you will know based on your relationship with God. 
2. There's a wide gap between being religious and having a personal and committed relationship with God. 
3. Beware of pretenders. Not all church members are children of God. The only way to escape their trap is to be spiritually minded. 
4. Don't be single and desperate. Be single and seriously serving the Lord. When you become desperate to be married or to be in a relationship, tendencies are high that you would fall into the hands of players.
5. Pray before you commit your heart to any relationship, whether online and or offline. Don't treat people on face value. Spiritually screen people that you would allow access into your life.
6. Shun frequent communication with the opposite, it's a pathway to intimacy. Avoid filthy communications (erotic), they corrupt manners and breaks down the edge of boundaries in relationships.
7. Be careful of gifts, they blindfolds too. Only the giver knows the aim for giving. 
8. Beware of indecent touches. Your body belongs to God and your husband - not boyfriends. 
9. Guard your heart with all diligence lest the wrong man enters to destroy you. Once a man finds his way into your heart, he can easily manipulate how you think or react. Only allow God to take the seat of your life.
10. Be careful of lonely visits. Even if he's the 'main' man, prevent stories that touches the heart. 
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I hope you have learned one or two things. Share and tag a friend to be blessed. 
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© Oluwamayowa Adeniyi.

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