Tuesday, 24 April 2018


1. Don't go into it if you are not ready for marriage in the next 2 or 5 years max!

2. End all relationships with all your EX and focus on your fiance/fiancee. If you can't end all past relationships then leave your partner alone and marry all your EX. Ex means extinct. Let your relationships with them especially if it had been sexual/romantic go into extinction!

3. Talk, talk, talk! Courtship is for talking. Talk out your differences, marital expectations, vision, dreams, goals.

4. Know their weaknesses, see if you can cope with them in marriage.

5. Ladies, learn how to submit to his leadership.

6. Guys, learn how to lead with love and by example.

7. No romance is allowed, you are not yet married.

8. No sex, unless you are looking for serious trouble.

9. Don't do his house chores, you are not yet his wife. Don't empty all your bank account to please her, you are not her Automated Teller Machine (ATM).

10. Always pray and study the word together, they help you grow spiritually.

11. Be proud of each other. Flaunt each other shamelessly. Celebrate, admire, praise and prize each other above others. No pet names please, they will turn you on.

12. No meeting in the dark or behind closed doors.

13. No clubbing and partying.

14. Avoid all form of sin in your courtship.

15. Stay holy, pure and heaven bound.

May the Lord grant you understanding. Thanks for reading. God bless you. Cheers!

© Seun Oladele.

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