Monday, 30 April 2018

Last One.

Dare and Tolu have been friends for a long time and they were both Christians. One thing led to another, emotion rolled in and they began to date without the mindset of having to engage in premarital sex. It was simply friends without any strings attached. 
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They hang out a lot, spend quality time with each other so much that a day cannot end without them meeting to either go out or just talk. They even follow each other's post on social media to show the extent of how affectionate they were.
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As we all know that immoralities thrives behind close doors, one day, they began to touch each other in their unguarded hours. But quickly, they put off the fire. Days go by and they graduated from kissing into having sex with each other. They both felt bad after the experience and resolved not to return to such again but never stopped seeing all the time and in secluded areas and so the escapades continued without any remorse feeling anymore.
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God in His mercy did not want them to continue wallowing in sin, He gave Tolu an opportunity to repent by directing her to read a write up that talked about fornication and its consequences which touched her heart so greatly that she locked herself up in a room and sobbed all day. 
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She determined to break up with Dare. She approached him and he agreed on a condition, which is to have her for the last time. May I call this parting sex; what should Tolu do as she became confused?
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Beloved, this scenario is not only to unbelievers but is sad to see that it's also happening in the Christian world. So after the parting escapade, you will then come back to Christ? Can we love in sin and ask grace to abound? This is when to know how genuine your repentance is. When I came back to Christ I had a lot of temptations to go back into immoralities but I determined by His grace that I will not go back to my vomit because Jesus has cleansed me totally. 
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Hear me, you will desire whatever you put in front of you or give much attention to, is Christ in such position in your life? Is Christ behind you and your ungodly relationship before you? 
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Remember, that man or lady did not pay the price, Christ did so he/she should keep his/her sexual secreting hormones away from you because you have been bought with a greater price. 
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If he/she ask for parting timeout, simply say no and quickly set boundaries, get busy with His Word, talk to a counselor or mentor, ask for grace to put your flesh to check and cut out all communication means to such person.
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When my little girl fell down, I felt the pain even when I wasn't the one who fell because she is my daughter, God feels same way anytime you fall into sin, stop nailing Christ to the cross again. 
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Resist the devil and he will flee from you, that last sex can ruin you completely and that is lust and never love, be wise and radical in preserving your body and destiny. Say no to parting sex!
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Good Morning
Oluwatoyin Aremu.







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