Monday, 23 April 2018

The 3D of Sex (Soul).

I bless God for the first part of this teaching, it was a blessing to those who were blessed. 
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Today, God will reveal truths to us concerning the second dimension of sex. 
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From the first teaching, you'd have understood that for complete oneness to occur between a man and woman, they must consummate their union with sex. 
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Spirits have sex and they require human bodies to accomplish that. And God spoke through Paul to us that whosoever joins himself together with an harlot is one with him or her. That joining has to do with the human spirit, soul and body.
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When you have sexual intercourse with the opposite sex, legally or illicitly, your soul is involved. A man's soul consists of three things - his will, emotions and intellect. The part of your soul that becomes one flesh is your emotions which would grossly affect your will and probably your intellectual orderliness. This is where the subject of soul tie covenant comes into play. 
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What is soul tie covenant and what's the mystery behind it?
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When you're in a relationship with the opposite sex, there’s an emotional intimacy that occurs between you two and if care is not taken, it'll lead to sexual intimacy. The genesis of soul tie begins when you talk more often with the opposite sex and before you know it, you'll begin to communicate the same thoughts, language or expression. 
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Soul tie occurs with or without sex but it becomes more stronger when sex is involved. 
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Frequent communication with the opposite sex is the bedrock to soul tie covenant. Soul tie covenant doesn't requires blood, what it requires is emotional bonding. When your emotions begins to bond with an unbeliever, an abuser or a cheat; even if hundred prophets tells you not to marry him or her; you’ll still go back to them.
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Soul tie covenant is the reason why you'd fall in love with a man or woman who's not God's will for your life and you'd still insist to forge ahead with such relationship. 
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Have you ever wondered why a lady will be blindly in love with a man that abuses her verbally and physically; yet she sees nothing wrong in it? This is the mystery of the soul tie covenant. 
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It is for this reason that a married man will still run back to his ex-girlfriend, even when he has been married with kids. It's for this reason that people double date, especially with their ex. You may have lost contact or communication with your ex, if you do not break that covenant, whenever you meet him or her years later, something will bond you together which made you to be together in the first place.
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Soul tie is that same reason why you keep rising and falling into premarital or extramarital sex with your ex or a different person. It is the bond that wreck lives, destinies, marriages and ministries. 
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If you now have sex outside or before marriage, you have completed the oneness of the flesh that God said a man and woman shall be. What makes you one in marriage is not by having joint account, wearing the same clothes or eating or doing things together; although they are the means but not the very thing. It's sexual intercourse that completes the consummation whether before or outside marriage. This is why having sexual intimacy other than in marriage is an outright evil and would attract God's judgment on the parties involved. 
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There's a force that strengthens addiction and makes it very difficult for the victim to break free from it. It could be masturbation, pornography, erotic conversations, drug abuse or whatever addiction you can think of and the force is soul tie.
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Whatever you do repeatedly, there’s a spirit that backs you up. This is why bad habits are difficult to break and good habits are difficult to form. It is your soul tie with an habit that influences your will to be consistent in it.
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Do you know why God spoke through Paul and warn us to flee youthful lust? Youthful lust isn't just sex, it has to do with every vice that youths are accustomed to. FLEE because if you embrace it, it'll not only destroy you but ruin you beyond repair. And it's only God that can correct such lives, not prison or rehab centres.
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When you have sex, a part of your soul has been shared with whoever you have sex with. When you communicate frequently with the opposite sex and the relationship is built on pleasure, a soul tie begins to form which may lead to sexual intimacy. 
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The devil has the power to afflict you when he successfully enslaves your soul (emotions and will). This is why those who are victims of evil addictions cannot always think straight or reason properly when they come under the influence of their urge.
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And that careless emotional soul tie covenant you form with your friend through irrelevant discussion into the late hours of the night is a precursor to bondage.
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Soul tie covenant is the reason why many people are single physically but they're engaged spiritually and their souls have been shared with multiple sexual partners. It is this tie that would make you to be in love with two persons at the same time without knowing whom to marry or choose.
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You need to prayerfully break whatever soul tie covenant you have established with your ex in time past. Psychological solutions will not bring a lasting solution to this unless you prayerfully deal with it until there's a total divorce between you and the person or those persons. 
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Indicators that shows you're a victim to soul tie covenant 
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1. You cannot have control over your will when the thought of that person comes to your mind or the urge of that evil addiction.
2. You want to go to that person or do that thing knowing fully well that they'll lead you to sin but you don't mind asking God for forgiveness after doing it deliberately. 
3. You want to spend time with that person or thing two-four-seven either physically, sexually or emotionally. 
4. You struggle to rise but fall severally into sexual sin or evil habits regardless of how born again you are or no matter how hard you try.
5. You cry or hate yourself after indulging in the act but you still go back to it.
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Way out
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1. Repentance (confess and forsake your sins) 
2. Terminate the ungodly relationship 
3. Prayerfully break the soul tie covenant with whoever you have established it with or that evil habit. 
4. Mortify the deeds of your flesh by the Spirit 
5. If your sexual sins or evil addiction can be traceable to your lineage, you need to be more prayerful until you have total victory over that challenge. 
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Checkmate your conversation with the opposite sex in the direction it's tending to. There's no reason why you should be talking to a friend you're not engaged to be married to or you're married everyday and every time. What are you saying?
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Soul tie covenant is real and difficult to break. But more stronger is the power in the name of Jesus to break every chain.
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(Please sing the song thrice and take five minutes to prayerfully break every soul tie chain - connecting you to your ex, ungodly relationship, evil covenant or evil trend of your father's house or mother, or evil habits in your life). Please do it whether you have an ex or not.
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A teaching delivered to the Marriage & Right Sexuality arm of the Covenant Marriage and Family Life Ministries (Online)
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© Oluwamayowa Adeniyi

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