Thursday, 19 April 2018


Showing affection for a man is not natural, he is a man, not a woman. You can't expect him to move from being masculine to being amazingly romantic on the wedding day, these things take time especially if he wasn't a play boy when you met him.
Don't expect her to be a sex super star immediately after wedding, especially if she lacked previous experience or wasn't a prostitute! A brand new bride can't be be an expert at the 62 sex styles on her wedding night and beyond!
Romance, love, affection, submission, financial management, understanding and intimacy take time to build in marriage, it doesn't jump on anybody!
Do not build unrealistic expectations in marriage. A successful marriage requires a great deal of patience and hard work. The Bible says, "love is patient and kind". Patiently, lovingly and maturely teach your husband how to be romantic. Bear with him when he fails.
Teach him how you want to be addressed, treated, responded to, etc. If you want him to hug you a lot in public, tell him, if you don't like the way he shouts at you, nicely, maturely tell him. He is human, stop treating him like a criminal or a wicked human being who is all out to hurt you. He will make mistakes while learning, give room for that. Marriage is a place to allow your spouse be themselves while trying to get better day by day.
Don't abuse her is she's not respectful enough. She's not used to having a man tell her what to do with her life 24/7. Be patient, win her trust and respect, with time, she will learn to submit to your leadership with deep reverence and honour.
If she is sexually "incompetent", teach her. My husband taught me how to kiss him. Take her hand to where you like to be touched and teach her how you want her to perform. Buy good books on marriage and sex for her, read the books together, learn together, grow together, change together. Be flexible, adapt, adjust, shift for one another. Submit to one another.
In courtship, talk. Tell each other how to be treated in marriage.
Open your heart to each other, prepare for a blissful marriage.
If you are shy, you don't know how to talk to your partner/spouse or don't know which issue you should address or deal with in your courtship/marriage, read my ebook: "Lies That Break Marriages," it will help you a lot.
Communication is easier, sweeter and flows easily when you marry a spouse who loves you unconditionally and accept you the way you are. It's fun when you marry your best friend and soul mate. Read "How To Attract Your Perfect Soul Mate" if you need to find your own partner seriously. You will not mischoose in Jesus' name.
Perhaps you are sick and tired of searching and getting disappointed over and over again and age is no longer by your side, you need to get connected to your spouse this year and get married soon, read "Overcoming Marital Delay," it will teach you the things you need to do to put an end to your frustration and get married gloriously to your own partner made from heaven. Each ebook cost five hundred naira only. You will get them in your email after payment. Inbox me or send me Whatsapp message on 07081017218 to know how to get your copy.
For those in the United States, Australia, etc, it is 2 dollars only, South Africans get it for 25 rands and Kenyans get it at 200 Kenyan Shillings only. So cheap, so affordable, so easy to get. I look forward to hearing from you. Thanks for reading. God bless you. Cheers!

© Seun Oladele

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