Monday, 28 May 2018

The Sex You Will Enjoy.

Sex is like drinking a cup of hot tea. It'll scald your tongue when you drink it while it's hot but you'll enjoy it lots better when it's warm. Sexual intimacy is an experience that the human soul craves for, there's a time your hormones will be 'desperate' to have it and there's a time it's best enjoyed after you have tamed your urge. 
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Because it's soul craving, many are in a rush to know how it tastes even outside the right atmosphere, only for them to regret it later when the pleasure no longer becomes exciting. 
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Do you want it 'hot' and be burned or 'warm' and enjoy the wonders God has deposited in it?
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Everything God created right from the beginning was good and sex isn’t a weapon of mass destruction, it was intuitively infused into man’s instinct to serve His purpose. However, it becomes destructive when you use it against His purpose. 
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The best form of sexual intimacy to enjoy is marital sex, no matter how good premarital or extramarital sex may be, all they will do for you is to expose you to destruction and everlasting bondage. 
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There are two ancient description of sexual intimacy; to know and to lie with. Adam knew his wife but Potiphar’s wife told Joseph to lie with her. Do you know what it means to ‘know' or ‘lie with?’
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Permit me to do a little exposition on its Hebrew meaning. To ‘know' means ‘Yada' which is interpreted as ‘to be familiar with’, or ‘to comprehend’. When you have marital sex, you know each other intimately. Premarital sex and extramarital sex won’t give you that experience because it leaves you with guilt and condemnation after the act. No matter how many rounds of sex outside marriage you have, you cannot be patient to comprehend your partner intimately because you have a quickie mindset. 
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However, sex outside marriage means to ‘lie with’ and it means ‘shakab' in the Hebrew word. No matter how crazy the styles are or how thrilling the rounds are, or how pleasurable the touches and moans are, they deprive you of knowing your partner intimately, you’re only sleeping with someone else’s wife or husband. 
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You can only know your partner intimately when you have marital sex. All the pleasures the society has made premarital and extramarital to look like are nothing but destruction if you really count the cost. They come with pleasure but they will leave you emptied, used and violated. You'll enjoy it but you'll end up regretting it afterwards. Why don’t you expect Potiphar’s wife to tell Joseph to come and know her? 
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For every illicit sex you have, something is introduced, something is missing and something in you is reduced. The more you have it, the more you become less of what God has destined you to be but when you repent, you will obtain His mercy. 
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Mind you, your first time sex is notable. Aside the fact that you were disflowered, either male or female, you open up your spirit, soul and body to becoming one flesh with the first person you engaged with. In marriage, God sees sex as knowing each other but He sees premarital and extramarital sex as fornication and adultery. Moreover, subsequent illicit sex still comes with the same penalty the first time brings. 
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Do you know that the sex you will enjoy is that which is done within the confines of marriage. You know why? 
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There’s no guilt or condemnation.
You don’t attract any divine penalty for doing it. 
Nothing is reduced in your life, missing or introduced.
There’s a joy that fills your soul. A good marital sex brightens the souls and bodies of the parties involved. 
No past memories of sexual encounters or selfish comparison. 
There’s no evil soul tie or mortgaging your destiny with multiple sexual partners. 
You leave no evil trend or consequence for your unborn generation. 
There's no loss of glory or virtue. 
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Would you still wait to have sex or you will rush to have it quick? It might seem to you that nothing is happening after every illicit sexual act but be certain that many things you cannot see has happened. Fornication and adultery are one of the sins God supervises because you deliberately destroy His temple. 
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I understand how tempting, seductive or enticing is it to engage in premarital or extramarital sex but count the cost. You may escape it but your unborn children will never go scot free from the few minutes pleasure you engage in. Ask King David!
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There's always the sexual intimacy that is enjoyed and there are some that is much regretted. Which would you choose? 
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© Oluwamayowa Adeniyi.

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