Thursday, 10 May 2018

VIRGINITY, MASTURBATION AND SEXUAL SATISFACTION IN MARRIAGE.

Millions of women are not enjoying sex in marriage world-wide. Most are not enjoying sex because their husbands don't know how to make them scream his name! Countless men are pathetic failures in bed because they lack the skill to make a woman's head hit the roof in breath taking love making! They lack the skill because they have no self control, their self control got thrown in the ocean of carelessness the day they start having pre-marital sex or masturbation, bottom line, you need your virginity to enjoy sex in marriage!
One of the reasons I'm so crazy about hubby that I could literally lose everything I have to keep him is that he gives me the greatest, mind blowing sex of my life! The Lord Jesus knows I need hot sex in bed, I can endure hunger, not sexual dissatisfaction, I can endure other forms of discomfort but I must have my orgasm! As long as hot romance, affection and roof breaking love making leading to pitch high orgasm is in place, I am happy and contented with my man!
Pre-marital sex will destroy your sex life in marriage! The same self control you used to keep your virginity, is the same self control you need to last in bed. Sex is satisfying for a woman when her husband can last long in bed.
Masturbation will destroy your sex life beyond repair if you don't stop it. If you are in the habit of always going solo when the urge jumps on you, you won't control yourself to give your wife maximum pleasure or last before you explode. Premature ejaculation is one of the leading causes of sexual dissatisfaction and ultimately divorce world-wide!
Regular, intense, persistent masturbation will weaken and eventually kill your erection! Ejaculating every now and then will weaken your sperm! Watching pornography will give you a warped, bent, destructive view of sex and women thereby leading to sexual violence, molestation, assault and rape!
The fear of sexual performance in marriage due to unrealistic comparison of your self with those demonic porn stars will literally render you impotent in marriage! I'm not talking theory, I'm talking reality, the sexual frustration women are going through and how lots of divorce would have been avoided if the men had learnt to zip up!
Ladies who masturbate may not enjoy sex too. If you are used to going solo, you may not wait for adequate foreplay before getting your orgasm and once the sexual tension is gone, you are left with nothing to give your husband. You may also have affairs in marriage if you experience regular, dissatisfied sex in marriage.
Using dildo, banana, cucumber, candles, bottles, sticks etc may make you lose feelings for his real penis after marriage while dreaming of something bigger, larger and completely unrealistic!
Bottom line, keep your virginity, if you've lost it, start abstinence again, learn self control. Stop masturbating! Resist the urge to touch, finger or rub your private part when you feel the urge.
Stop watching porn and all x-rated, nude, sexually arousing movies. Feed on the word of God daily; fast, pray and be sexually disciplined!
Married people should stop masturbating. It's sinful, it's destructive, its demonic! If both of you are not sexually satisfied, read good books on sex, go for counselling, see a sex therapist!
A great deal of self control is needed to enjoy sex and give your wife the greatest orgasm of her life!
If you re a man, you are still a virgin andyou've not been masturbating, congratulations! With good books and a great deal of knowledge on sex, unlimited sexual pleasure awaits both you and your wife in marriage.
If you were active but now born again and have self control, sexual pleasure, marital bliss awaits you too in marriage.
If you are sexually active or masturbating, you need to stop it fast or you will regret your actions in marriage. I see that happen all the time.
May the good Lord grant you understanding. Feel free to share, do not plagiarize. Thanks for reading, God bless you, cheers!

© Seun Oladele

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