Monday, 18 June 2018


Why did I chose to get married after 5 years of courtship? My body was on fire! I was madly in love, I wanted to have sex, one more year? I reject pregnancy out of wedlock in Jesus' name!
Grace and level of self control differs! Some can court for 10 years, honestly, before God and man, they will court gloriously without kissing talk less of romancing. Some can keep off sex in courtship for 5 years without touching each other, some can't wait beyond 2 years, anything more than that equals fornication!
6 months courtship, I don't support that one. Where in the name of God are you rushing to? You need to get to know the person you want to marry before settling down please! Why would you allow your libido rush you to get married to a stranger? 2 years courtship is okay. 1 year is the barest minimum.
Bottom line, don't over stretch yourself a beg. There is a limit you can control your sexual urge in courtship. If this urge is setting you ablaze with hot smoke literally oozing out of your pores and you've courted for at least 2 years, both of you are mature for marriage, he has a good accommodation with good job for a start, please, get married, get married, don't fornicate, go and marry!
Ah, after 5 years, he would visit me in my one room apartment with my well laid bed crying to be wrinkled and my blood would be rushing to unwanted places...for how long? Mba! I couldn't wait any more. I must have sex and I had it on the wedding night, body calmed down. Thank you Jesus!
Thank God for helping us keep our testimonies for 5 years. Sex is worth the wait. Don't allow your sexual urge push you to fornicate. 

You will not lose your testimony in Jesus' name. Wait for sex, it pays to wait. 

God bless you. Cheers!

©Seun Oladele

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