Tuesday, 19 June 2018


Any lady who says, "I don't care what any one says, I just dress the way I like" is telling a big, fat lie!
We love to be admired, especially by the opposite sex, it is an inborn thing. Whether consciously or unconsciously, you want a man to drool over you, whistle, get magnetized or simply pursue you so when my darling tells me my body drives him crazy, smokes of love ooze right out of my head!
Thank the good Lord for the breasts and buttocks, all women know men don't joke with those so we package, re-package and make them conspicuous, desirable and stir the men up. Nothing bad if it is done for your husband, you are seen as smart and commended for the great work of seduction you are doing but outside marriage, it is real wahala!
The breasts and buttocks are designed by God to drive a man's testosterone wild for sex. It's not his fault, he is wired that way. So when you wear skin tight trousers or skirts showing the very shape of your buttocks and skin tight tops with super low necklines showing the cross in between your breasts with heavy Mounds on each side, he wants sex automatically. You are seen as a sex object for his sexual release. Yes, he will give you a hot chase, not out of admiration for your person but for your "natural endowment" and when he is done, he dump s you for someone else.
Don't attract a man to your body, it will get him sex and nothing more. Attract him to your character, expose your character not your body. Expose your brain! Let men know you are intelligent. Men love intelligent ladies. Read wide, be knowledgeable and contribute meaningfully to discussions.
Expose your character. Be loving, friendly, caring, humble and generous. These are qualities that attract men for marriage not just for sex!
Yes, be admirable, be attractive. Men will always look at outward appearance only God looks at the heart.
Dress smart, make your hair, clear all the rashes from your face. Wear shape fitting clothes. Be clean, be tidy, be neat. That is enough.
You don't need to bring out your thighs, buttocks and breasts, you will look like a prostitute. Those assets are meant to be exposed to your husband in the bedroom not for every man on the road. I hope you understand? 

May the Lord grant you understanding. 

Thanks for reading. God bless you. Cheers!

© Seun Oladele.

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