Monday, 4 June 2018

THIS IS WHY MARRIAGES ARE FAILING IN NIGERIA.

HOW CAN A MAN BE ENCOURAGING A MARRIED WOMAN TO CONTINUE TO COMMIT ADULTERY BECAUSE HER HUSBAND CHEATED ON HER.
WIVES RUN FROM SOME FACEBOOK GROUPS IF YOU WANT TO KEEP YOUR HOME.
HUSBANDS LOVELY ADVICE YOUR WIVES TO CHECK OUT OF SOME GROUPS IF YOU WANT A HAPPY HOME.
READ THE STORY I COPIED FROM A GROUP BELOW.
THIS IS ABOUT ONE OF MY MOST PROFOUND MOMENT IN MY DPA EXPERIENCE.
I had to hold back tears from rolling down my eyes as I contemplate how to react to respond to this woman who chose to trust me with her most intimidate escapade. It is better for you to read our chat:
LADY:
Good evening daddy, I'm a member of DPA group. The situation I met myself on the past two months have been so pathetic.
I found out that my husband was cheating with numerous girls while I was pregnant last year. It's about six months I put to bed and he reluctantly touched me once after a long period of begging. My marriage is approaching 3 years and it's being a period emotional shipwreck. I kept asking myself series of questions, none of my exes ever complained I am dirty or untidy. Looking good and taking good care of myself comes naturally to me. He is not just bothered no matter the sexy lingerie or sensual pheromone I put on.
At some point I complained and he told me I shouldn't be thinking of sex like single girls. He told me African married women are more bothered about the affairs of their household than sex. He is always too tired to touch me.
I was disappointed and hurt because same man who refused to touch me is hunting after other women, some of whom he spends so heavily on. I have a good job so I thought financial assistance is not a problem until March when I finally agreed to meet this Facebook friend who seems nice and has being a long standing chat mate. Sincerely the purpose of seeing him wasn't for sex but somehow we loved each other's company and agreed to meet the second time. A lot transpired and we had to get an hotel. He reminds me of my single years, there was no limit to what he did to me, I saw people criticised your post on oral sex, I just laughed at them. I got loads of oral action from him, my lactating boobs weren't spared either. He kept asking if truly I have a child, how tight my vjay is. I don't want to bore you with my hotel room stories but sincerely, it's been long I felt so desired.
I thought all were mere praises and it's going to end after the first encounter but I am wrong. The relationship has been going on steady and he's been spoiling me with gifts and cash. Sometimes I just close my eyes and feel him all over me. I know this is madness but I don't know how to stop without hurting both of us.
My major concern is that he is also married and sometimes I feel I'm being unfair to his wife.
EMEKA:
My daughter, I appreciate your openness toward me and the trust you repose in me. I have learnt not to make the moral judgment. Many people do not understand me for that. But it is not for me to make moral judgment. One of my professors at Harvard, about 25 years ago, a highly respected man and well known in the entire university community, had a Chinese secretary. They were close, but nobody would ever suspect that such a man would compromise. But one day, at dinner with me and his secretary, he confided in me that he and his secretary were in love. I looked from one face to the other and the lady smiled shyly and nodded her affirmation of what I just heard.
This was actually my supervisor, the Vice Dean of the Harvard Law School then. I was shocked. First, I was just a student, a young man from Africa. The fact that they would trust me enough to make me one of the first people in Cambridge to hear this was shocking to me. My mind went to the wife of the Vice Dean. She was a nice and stately lady and well established as well. I asked my mentor - What about your wife. He looked down and said to me: "Ephraim, I have been thinking about this for a long time. But I have asked myself many times: how could it be so bad and yet so good?"
That is the message I shall give you tonight: "How could it be so bad and yet so good?" Please, my daughter, enjoy love where you found it. But be careful to make sure it doesn't hurt you. His wife is a factor. But it is too complex for you to answer all the questions. As you enjoy the romance and love, (I must accept the possibility of complicated love), remain alert. As for your about-to-be ex husband, he is now useless as a husband. So, plan your future delicately. After the intense loving experience and sexual reawakening you have just experienced, it is impossible to go back to the cold hand and deceitful mind of of the man you have called husband for some time now.
I wish you luck and I pray for you. If you ever need my help, consider it yours on demand. God bless you. God bless the woman so starved of love, but who finally found it, albeit a complex and complicated one.
MAY GOD SAVE US FROM EVIL COUNSELLOR
#WivesintouchwithGod

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