Friday, 8 June 2018

YOU DON'T NEED MARRIAGE!

When some singles tell me they are tired of singleness and want to get married, I wish to scream loud and clear they don't need a spouse! Nothing about them shows they are ready for marriage, except developed breasts and moustache!
Marriage won't cure your loneliness. Marriage is for people who are ready to give. If you have nothing to give, your partner will feel cheated, move away from you or look for someone else who can contribute meaningfully into their lives.
Happy couples distribute happiness not look for who to give them happiness!
Everyone is looking for blessing, not someone to use them as blessings! If you have nothing sensible to give your spouse in marriage except have sex and cry for love, attention and frustrate their lives till they run mad, your marriage will end in the dustbin!
You are not ready for marriage if you are not happy!
You are not ready for marriage if you have no job or means of income!
You are not ready for marriage if you can't pray for yourself talk less of someone else!
You are not ready for marriage if you are looking for who to buy you recharge cards and take you to the salon!
You are not ready for marriage if you are still squatting!
You are not ready for marriage if you can't feed yourself talk less of someone else!
You are not ready for marriage if you are looking for a slave to wash all your clothes and cook till they burn out!
You are not ready for marriage if you are looking for someone to run errands for you.
You are not ready if you are not ready to contribute your love, joy, happiness, character, money, achievements, status, intellect and everything you've got to make the other person's life better.
A successful marriage is between two givers not just takers. If you are not ready to give all you've got to make the life of the other person better, you are not ready for marriage.
May the good Lord grant you understanding. 

Thanks for reading. God bless you. Cheers!


© Seun Oladele

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