Thursday, 26 July 2018


A man can promise you heaven on earth before marriage and fail woefully after marriage. No sane man gets into marriage to hurt or damage his pretty bride but of course we are human, humans will fail, only God never fails!
If your husband is failing or has failed you, you can't handle him by yourself. Straight to the point, if he is cheating whether emotionally or sexually, I mean he flirts, is into other women or out rightly chase after anything in skirt and this has entered his blood, you need a higher power to help you arrest him, you need God! Adulterers rarely change except by God's divine intervention!
Of course, one has some work to do: being more submissive, loving, charming, sexier, seductive and all that but except God Himself arrests him, those efforts will fail.
Get God involved in your man's affairs. Pray for him daily. Don't wait till ladies are seducing him before you start doing that and if he is already in the net of adultery, use prayer as a powerful weapon to bring Him back home, let God help you deal with him. It sure works like fire!
I can keep sharing testimonies of some of my counsellees but time will fail me. I have counselled Pastors' wives with strange women capturing and seducing their husbands. I have talked to wives whose husbands are out rightly into other women. I have stood by wives whose husbands are in love with another woman and almost replace the one at home with the one outside. With humility and submission to instructions, they all came back with testimonies.
Some had their husbands confessing like witches undergoing deliverance, one literally prostrated before his wife begging for forgiveness, she had to quickly restrain him. One came back home and made remedy, some faced constant threat from these women but they stood their grounds prayerfully till they won the battle!
Look, marriage is spiritual. It is not a child's play. It is not for carnal people. Every marriage faces storms. There are battles going on against your marriage whether you are aware or not! Not every woman is happy that you are happy in your marriage. There are some eyeing your husband and will do anything to have him. Don't wait till they capture your husband before you start running helter-skelter. Start praying for your husband now! Cover his heart, spirit, soul and body in the blood of Jesus daily. There is power in the blood of Jesus.
If your husband is maltreating you and have other women he is wasting his resources on, pray for him daily. Fight your battle with the word of God and God will rescue him.
You need to be patient though. Some prayers get answered the first day, some within weeks, some take months while some take years. It all depends on your faith. Never give up! God is arising on your case! You shall share your testimony soon!
Don't forget to be more respectful, loving, caring, forgiving, neater, cleaner, looking presentable and be available for love making while praying."For faith without work is dead". Add work to your faith and "The Lord shall fight for you and you shall hold your peace." I look forward to hearing your testimony.

Thanks for reading. 

God bless you. 


© Seun Oladele

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