Thursday, 30 August 2018

DEAL WITH THAT FEAR.

Why are you so scared of losing your partner? Why do you think no good man will marry you? Why are you scared of divorce? Why this nudging fear your husband will have an affair and leave you for someone else? Why are you scared some one snatch your fiance? Why are you terrified at the thought of another man sleeping with your wife? Deal with this fear!
That fear is a sign something is wrong somewhere. No one gets afraid for nothing. Something is creating that fear, find out and and deal with it.
If you are scared no good man will marry you, why do you think you are not good enough? What is creating low self esteem? Poor character? Work on your character. Lack of education/job? Get good education/job! Generational curses? Deal with it and restore your self esteem and confidence!
Why this nudging fear your husband will have an affair? Have you been pushing.him out? Communication has gone down to zero? Your sex life has gone stale or you are plain sick and tired of the marriage and the man is getting the signs? Deal with this fear! Communicate with your husband, share your fears, deal with the nagging issues you have in your marriage, talk your heart out, confront your fear!
Why are you scared someone will sleep with your wife? Are her movements now suspicious? She's getting unduly close to that male colleague at work?She spends several hours on the social media chatting with an unknown man from morning till dawn? She 's having an emotional affair? Deal with your fear. Find out the things you are doing wrong in the marriage and fix them! Share your fears with her, correct her in love and pray for her. Women don't jump into affairs until the marriage is snuffing life out of her, fix your marriage!
Why do you think you can't find a good lady to marry? Why are you so afraid of rejection you could not propose marriage to the woman you love? Bad looks? Work on your looks and develop confidence. Bad expression, learn to express yourself confidently. Higher financial, educational or spiritual qualification of the woman? I will suggest you look for a woman at your level so you won't be a slave in your marriage.
Fear is a sign that something is wrong somewhere and we need to deal with it or we lose that relationship we dearly love. There is no fear in love. Perfect love cast out fear (1 John 4:18). If you claim to be in love and you are afraid of losing your love, something is wrong. Find out and deal with it. God bless you. Cheers!


© Seun Oladele.

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