Friday, 21 September 2018


Maturity-the acceptance of responsibility determines when you marry, not age. "I have seen men at 20 and boys at 60." There are 20 something years old ladies who act more mature than ladies in their thirties. Get educated, know how to make money, pay bills, accept responsibilities and take care of someone else.
2. HOW DO I KNOW GOD'S WILL FOR MY LIFE? Get born again, fellowship with God daily, read your bible, pray and learn to obey God daily. Read HOW TO HEAR FROM GOD by Joyce Meyers to know the ways and methods God speaks to His children.
3. SHOULD CHRISTIAN LADIES WEAR TROUSERS? Follow your church's doctrine. If they wear it in your church, fine. If not, fine. Jesus didn't waste His precious time arguing over irrelevant matters. His message was simple: "Neither do I condemn thee, go and sin no more." Period. No one should argue with me here. I don't have time for argument. If you hate trousers, change your church to wear they don't wear and vice versa. Same thing with Jewelries and others. Make sure you marry a man/woman who believes in your conviction. This is very important. If he loves make up and you hate it with passionate hatred, your marriage is in hot soup!
4. MUST A VIRGIN MARRY ANOTHER VIRGIN? Where is that written in the Bible? Marry God's will for your life. If God's will for you is to marry a virgin, congratulations.
Stop watching porn, stop watching all romantic movies, study your Bible at least 3 times daily. Fellowship with the Lord with all your heart. Study Psalm 119, Romans 12 and Colossians 3.
6. CAN A LADY MARRY A MAN SHE IS OLDER THAN? Why not? As long as you respect him and he is mature enough to husband you, be a role model and a leader to you, someone you admire and look up to, you are good to go!
7. I HAVE A BAD PAST, CAN I STILL FIND A GOOD MAN TO MARRY? Read 2nd Corinthians 5:17. God does not not consult your past to determine your future. As long as you have asked for forgiveness, your past is gone forever! He has a godly husband in stock for you. Expect him, he is on his way!
8. MY PARENTS HATE MY PARTNER. If your partner is truly God's will for you, pray, ask God to touch their hearts.
Amos 3:3; 2 Corinthians 6:14-18.
10. DO ALL VIRGINS SEE BLOOD AT THEIR FIRST SEX? No. Not all virgins have hymen but the percentage of those who don't bleed are few. Live a trust worthy life. Ensure your partner does not romance, fondle or have sex with you in courtship and have a clean record with guys so he can trust you incase you don't bleed on the wedding night.
Marry God's will for your life. A man who loves you for who you are not because you have hymen. Hymen will go but true love will stay.
I hope I've answered one or two questions bothering you? See you next time. Thanks for reading. God bless you. Cheers!

© Seun Oladele

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