Thursday, 25 October 2018

How to Avoid EM in Your Relationship.

Recently, I discovered that why lots of ladies ended up falling in love with the guy they never loved in the first place is as a result of Emotional Manipulation (EM). Guys too aren't exempted from this menace. 
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Emotional manipulation is a situation whereby your sense of judgement is induced based on strategic influences. It could be positive or negative. 
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When a man begins to tell a lady, "I'll take care of you, we'll travel round the world if you say yes to me", "I promise to be all you wanted in a man"; don't be deceived, he's manipulating you. 
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Love and acceptance ought to come naturally and should not be induced. Love is not in word or lip, it is in deed and in truth. 
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Action ought to speak louder than words. If you're going to take care of her, prove it sincerely. If you're going to be a wife material, let him naturally make the decision to accept you. Don't let anyone manipulate you into any relationship you do not want. 
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When a lady is covetous and materialistic, it'll be easy for her to be manipulated into the wrong relationship with flashy things. 
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Positive EM technique comes through flattery and empty promises that sounds too good to be true. Once he succeeded in gaining access into your emotions, it'll be easy for him to influence your will. 
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Ladies too can emotionally manipulate men. The Bible described them as 'strange women' who flatters with their lips. 
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However, the negative EM strategies that is mostly used is when a man tells a lady that he will kill himself if she refused to marry her or date her. Because most ladies are emotional, they'll consider such men because they don't want them to hurt themselves. 
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Wake up! If he kills himself because you refused having anything to do with it him, the devil will give him a red carpet treatment in hell and God will never hold you responsible. Don't be deceived! 
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Emotional Manipulation is real!
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Let your decision to accept a proposal or go into a love relationship be uninflunced by anyone or anything. Delilah emotionally manipulated Samson, until he let out the secret of his power. Take a close study at Judges 16:16 and you'd discover how she achieved it. If Joseph hadn't fled from his master's wife, she'd have emotionally manipulate him too. 
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The ways to avoid EM is to be content with whatever you have, flee when it becomes incessant, know the truth and don't be moved by what anyone say. Until you're convinced beyond confusion, never walk into any relationship or fall in love with no one. 
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The major goal of EM is deception and when you accept such relationship, you will meet what you never bargained for. 
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EM is the method that players use to get ladies, yahoo guys (internet fraudsters) use both positive and negative ones and in the worst case scenarios, ritualist employ spiritual manipulation to bait their victims through spell, jinx or charm. 
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Can you recall an experience of EM you had in your relationship or someone close to you? Tell us and how you or they were able to escape it. 




By Oluwamayowa Adeniyi.

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