Wednesday, 31 October 2018

THE FRIENDS YOU KEEP AS A MARRIED WOMAN.

If you are enjoying your marriage, kudos to God and your friends, if you are experiencing some hiccups and crises, take a look into your life, who is that devil pumping some thoughts into your head?
Some women have no single problem with their husbands until they start making friends with unhappy women with sick marriages then all hell broke loose!
To be forever happy in your marriage, you must obey Psalm 1 and 2 Corinthians 6:14-18 on daily basis.
1. Don't make friends with unhappy married women, they will fill your ears with tales of woe and you will eventually be unhappy with your marriage.
2. If you have a happy marriage, don't make friends with women who don't. They may become jealous of you and say things that will make you see your husband as a bad person. One elderly woman once told me, "you and your husband keep doing 'me and my husband' up and down. Men are not like that. They are this and that and that and this...", she kept pouring those bitter words till I heard enough. She was in a sad marriage and thought she could give me some advice that will help. I ended the relationship.
3. Don't make friends with women who castigate, condemn and see nothing good in men.
4. Don't make friends with women who see nothing bad in having emotional and sexual affairs.
5. Mind who you take counsel from. Wrong counsel will destroy your marriage.
6. Make friends with godly women who love the Lord with all their hearts, obey His word, submit to their husbands and are happy in their marriages.
No relationship leaves you the same. It will change you, make you bitter or better. "You will be the same person you are in the next5 years except for the books you read and the friendship you keep." Make friends with quality people and the quality of your life will improve. "We resemble people with whom we assemble." Cindy Trimm.
May the Lord give you the grace to do what is right.
Thanks for reading. God bless you. Cheers!

© Seun Oladele

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