Wednesday, 10 October 2018

Where You Need to be to Discover the Right Person to Marry.

It's often said that your location determines your allocation and this is also true about knowing and meeting the right one to marry.
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The major problems every singles face when it comes to choosing a life partner is how to know the right person to marry. 
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Oftentimes we have be told by relationship experts to position ourselves in the right place, be social, make friends and meet new people and the likes. In fact Christian relationship counselors would tell you to be involved in activities in the church. It sounds good, isn't it?
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But the truth about finding the right person to marry for a Christian is different from the way unbelievers will go about theirs.
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The right place for you to be to meet the right person is:
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1. In the Garden of Eden
Going back to how it started in Eden, Adam found Eve when he was in the garden of Eden.
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You don't need to look for a garden to be, Eden simply means the presence of God. It's easy to meet the right person or know them when you have a place of fellowship with God. Don't use God as a formula, intimate yourself with Him.
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You can't find the right one God intended for you anywhere other than in His presence. Don't go out of His presence to choose anyone as a spouse to be, let Him guide you.
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2. The place of fulfilling God's purpose for your life
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God brought Eve to Adam while he was carrying out His assignment.
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The helper you need as a help meet will be discovered while you're fulfilling God's purpose for your life. The help meet you need to assist you in fulfilling God's purpose in life will be found or known when you're busy doing something for God. This is why it's important that you know God's purpose for your life before you seek for whom to marry.
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And truthfully, you may not discover His purpose for your life and marry suit but such marriage will be boring, unfulfilling and your chances of getting it right is slim.
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Marriage ought to be an extension of fulfilling God's purpose for your life, it's more than having sex, making babies, living as couples or enjoying the status quo that comes with it.
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Are you looking for whom to marry? Have you discovered God's purpose for your life or you're still living without a direction? Or perhaps you come to church but you do not have a personal relationship with God?
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Save yourself from the issues people face in marriage so you can enjoy yours. Live a life to fulfill God's purpose in your generation and have a personal walk with God. When you do these, in His own time appointed, He'll lead you to the right person to marry.

© Oluwamayowa Adeniyi.

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