Wednesday, 14 November 2018

The Genesis of Sexual Sins.

The journey of a thousand miles starts with a step and once a step has been taken, it's no longer a thousand miles. 
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God did not create man to be a sinner, a point in his life came when he was introduced to sin. However, sin came into the world through Satan and it entered into the whole human race through Adam and Eve. 
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Do you know that sinners would lure you into sexual sin? 
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One of the areas through which Satan fulfill his 3-point agenda in the life of youth in this age is through sexual sin. There's nothing that destroys the life and destinies of youths faster other than sexual sin. 
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You know why? 
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Every sin a man does is outside the body; but he (or she) that commits fornication sins against his (or her) own body (1 Cor. 6:17).
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Sexual sin is a sin you commit which involves sex or your sexual organs, it is sexual in nature. It may involve two persons or it can be committed by an individual. Sexual sin is often common to people who are in a love relationship, especially online friends or real life friends. 
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The likes of masturbation, pornography and lustful thoughts can be committed alone but when it comes to kissing, premarital sex, erotic conversation, caressing each others sexual organs amongst others, it involves two persons.
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In my personal experience in relationship, I have discovered that sexual sin that involves two persons often starts with a demand, a request, a suggestion or a harmless compliment. 
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When a man begins to complement you sexually, he's setting you up for sexual sin if you do not shun him immediately. When a lady tells you how handsome or good in bed you'd become, there's fire on the mountain. 
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The serpent told Eve that she will not surely die when she eats the forbidden fruit. When you're lured into sexual sin, you'd be told things like these: "It's just a kiss", "We'll only 'romance' but not have sex", "Are you not a man?", "There's nothing wrong with it", "We'll do it once", "It's not a big a deal", "Don't be too spiritual", "Everyone is doing it", "I won't hurt you", "Are you not a big girl?", "You will enjoy it", "I hope you're not like those spirikoko brothers/sisters and so on. Run for your dear life! 
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If the first step has been taken and you do not flee or you did little 'shakara' and you came back again, this time, a giant stride will be accomplished which will destroy you. 
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Do you remember Samson? He told Delilah several secrets until he let out his mind. You'll fall into sexual sin when your emotions has been tied to the sinful partner or act and it'd be difficult to let go. 
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If you've not fallen neck deep inside it, hold this truth with your right hand. It takes one sinner to lure a careless saint into sexual sin. And Proverbs 1:10 has this to say, "My son (daughter), if sinners entice you, consent you not".
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Sinners are in the church, on social media and are disguised as friends. Be careful! They'll come in sheep's clothing, whereas, they're are wolves (sinners) who will devour you. 
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What makes people victim of sexual sin is an enticement. You can be enticed with money, gift, false care, lust with the shade of love, attention and so on until you're gradually trapped in it. 
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Another reason why you'd fall into sexual sin when it involves two persons is that you spend time with one 'special' person to be chatting, reading or visiting at odd hours and emotional intimacy is involved. This is a trap your flesh or the devil will utilize to make you fall. 
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The only way to overcome sexual sin is to quit the relationship, especially when it involves another person. Is that harsh? If Joseph hadn't fled, he would have remained a glorious slave in Potiphar's house instead of becoming all that God wanted him to be. 
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Run for your dear life, destiny and for the sake of the destinies attached to you. It is better to flee sexual sin and retain your glory, virtue, sexual purity and destiny than to embrace the temporal pleasure that comes with it and become a walking Ichabod. 
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Are you a victim of sexual sin? Are you finding it difficult to be free from the struggles of sexual sins? You can't help yourself. You need a Savior and a person who can guide you into His victory. Trust me, I've been there and His grace has made me victorious over it. You can confide in me. 
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Don't wallow in guilt, self-pity or condemnation. You are not born to be slaves to sexual sin or that relationship that makes you a victim. 
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You can overcome and you'd surely overcome. 
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© Oluwamayowa Adeniyi.

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