Wednesday, 9 January 2019

4 REASONS QUALITY MEN ARE NOT ATTRACTED TO YOU.

1. YOU ARE NOT GODLY:
Quality men are godly. If you are not godly, no quality man will be attracted to you. You may look "spiritual". You may cover your hair all day, speak in tongues 24/7, hate wearing trousers and earrings with passionate hatred, that doesn't make you godly god you won't attract godly men. Have you wandered why so many " spirikoko", very good "sisters in the Lord" marry womanizers, smokers and drunkards, because that is the kind of person their spirit attracts. Godliness is in your spirit. It is complete holiness in heart, thoughts and action not just in tying scarf and going to church. Many sisters look godly but are proud, arrogant, masturbate, romance, kiss, abuse and even get involved in premarital sex. Who you are in private is who you will attract in public. If you are not godly, godly men won't be attracted to you.
2. YOU LACK QUALITY:
Quality character, quality performance, quality dedication to your life, talents, calling and job. If you are shabby, shoddy, laid back and lazy, no quality man will be attracted to you. You don't pay quality attention to your studies, you render mediocre services to your clients, you don't take your job serious. You go to work late and gossip all day.You are a caterer, you don't know how to cook quality food or you are a hair stylist and what you do gives your customers headache, quality men will find you repulsive!
3. YOU BEG MEN FOR MONEY:
As a rule, quality men don't marry beggars. You can make your own money. Work, be humble. Stop waiting for a white collar job with your certificate if you can't find any. Find something tangible to do! Pride is the reason some ladies are jobless. You can teach in a Nursery and Primary school till you raise enough money to start a business and with some commitment and diligence, your business will grow into a global scale. Stop begging men for recharge cards. Everyone has problems, no man wants to add to his own, learn to solve your problem by yourself. Learn a skill, learn a trade, learn to make money with your brain and two hands, quality men will always find you irresistible.
4. YOU LACK EXCELLENCE:
Men of quality are men of excellence and they won't marry you no matter how sexy you look! Water will always find its level. If you want a man of excellence you must be a woman of diligence per excellence!
Excellence in your studies, excellence in character, excellence at your job, excellence in business, excellence everywhere! "There is no discrimination against excellence". Courtesy to Oprah Winfrey.
If unserious men have been approaching you for marriage; if the quality men are not looking your way, you need to correct what is wrong in your life - there is no discrimination against excellence!
May the Lord grant you understanding. Thanks for reading. God bless you. Cheers!

© Seun Oladele.

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