Wednesday, 9 January 2019


Some ladies think being friendly with guys will make them think they are cheap so they act aloof or tough to keep their "dignity" and "honour", you may never attract your soul mate that way.
What makes a lady cheap is pre-marital sex or allowing guys to touch her inappropriately. Desperation -chasing a guy who has no single interest in you also makes you cheap, aside that baby, no where are you cheap for God's sake! Loosen up!
Being friendly with guys won't make you lose rapture, neither will your virginity disappear because you smile at godly brothers.
Be friendly! Friendly ladies easily attract suitors. Learn to smile. Stop carrying the problem of your lineage on your head! Everyone has problems please, we all must learn to handle our challenges with maturity!
Stop treating guys like trash so they can see you as super high! Stop acting like you don't need a man, you need a man, that is why you are a woman and a man needs you.
You need a man sweetheart. Be humble, acknowledge it and make yourself approachable, likeable and lovable. If you don't need a man in your life, you won't be envying your friends and siblings who are getting married.
That you made mistakes in the past doesn't mean you should now act cold to show true repentance, no! The Bible says, "A man that hath friends must himself be friendly". If you want men to troop towards you, be friendly!
Caution needs to be taken though, lest your being friendly turns to something else. Set boundaries. Don't allow men touch you inappropriately in the name of being friendly with you. Don't visit guys in their apartments including your Pastor if the wife is not around.
Don't run after a guy that does not respond to or reciprocate your friendliness. Friendship is a two way thing. I call you, you call me. I respect you, you respect me. If you are the one doing all the calls, reaching out, etc, that friendship is sick and you need to re-define it.
Friendly ladies attracts suitors faster and easier. Read my ebooks: "How To Attract Your Perfect Soul Mate", " Overcoming Marital Delay", "Lies That Break Marriages" and "My Church Is Crazy!" for more info on attracting, keeping and getting married to your soul mate. With God and adequate knowledge, a blissful marriage is surely guaranteed!
You will not miss it!
Thanks for reading. God bless you. Cheers!

© Seun Oladele.

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