Wednesday, 16 January 2019


You can sweep a man off his feet through intelligent conversations. Men love intelligent and smart ladies. They love women who can think, are practical, logical and down to earth.
One of the ways you can make a man fall in love with you is to discuss things that matter to life not the gossip you heard down the street. Exercise your brain. Be current. Show pratical interest in what he does. If the guy you admire is a sport fanatic, you will need to learn about sports and carry on intelligent conversation along that line. If he is a business guru, know about business. If he is a book freak, read good books and wow him with sensible, logical conversations.
There is more to a marriage than cooking, having sex and raising children. A man wants a wife he can converse and reason with. Someone he can introduce to friends and she won't make him hide his face once she opens her mouth. He wants a woman who is versed, knowlegeable, versatile, sharp and smart. How smart are you?
Be smart sister. Read good books, attend seminars, make friends with intelligent women. Learn how to carry on sensible conversations.
Be careful not be proud though. The Bible says "knowledge puffs up..." It's easy to become proud, arrogant and haughty because of what you know. No man wants to marry a woman who ridicules his knowledge and shames him mercilessly. You can nicely, politely and humbly correct him when he makes mistakes but do not throw your weight around, it's a huge turn off. Have you noticed that proud ladies don't get married easily?
Bottom line, be godly, be chaste, be beautiful, be a good cook, be physically appealing but beyond that, work on your brain, put something good there and become charming and irresistible to men. Be a lady worth pursuing. God bless you. Cheers!

© Seun Oladele.

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