Monday, 18 February 2019


My husband listens to me A LOT. He is never too busy to hear me talk. Even when I protest he is busy and should allow me to give him space, he will say, "No, no, no, no. I'm listening, talk to me. I'm never too busy to listen to you". Oh my darling! How my heart melts! For some seconds, I'd breath deeply and then talk! Talk my heart out, gist, share a burden, seek counsel, ask for advise, joke about something or vent! He is my sounding board and my best friend. He is always there, always!
I have very few friends. I don't go about the street gossiping. I don't have low self esteem. I don't have affairs. I don't have men I mess with. I don't feel inferior. I'm bold, I'm smart, I'm intelligent, I'm very good in bed, I'm a good wife, a good mother. I love God and I have a good relationship with Him. I feel so good because hubby makes me feel good! I love myself because my husband loves me and makes me feel lovable. I feel intelligent and brilliant because he values my words and says I'm loaded. I believe I'm beautiful because Dewunmi says so daily! I feel on top of the world!
Your wife is who you make her to be sir! She is your product. She feels what you feel about her. She thinks what you think about her. She will only fly as high as you believe she can. Make that woman, there is a sleeping star in her! God has given you the power to do it, don't doubt yourself. Don't be afraid of her success, it belongs to both of you! Arise, do your job sir, make your woman great! It's your pride!
Lots of women are feeling so inferior in marriage. They married with high expectations but watched everything collapsed right before their very eyes. Some women don't stay home. They go from street to streets looking for who to talk to. Don't blame women who fell into adultery, yes I know it's wrong, they know too and God is working on them but loneliness is killing! Having no one to talk to is terrible! Not being appreciated by the man you fell in love with is frustrating! Being abused daily by a husband is mentally deranging! It's horrible!
You think abusing and shouting at her will make her change? No! It will damage her self esteem and make her hate you. She may say yes sir but inwardly resent you for treating her less than a dog!
My brothers, may God help you! The deepest need of every woman is to be loved, given affection, cherished listened to and be regarded as someone of worth and value!
Start listening to your wife today. She will see her tension relieved. She will be happier, glow more, listen to you more and submit to your authority more than ever before.
Every woman loves to be listened to by her man. It makes her feel like a woman.
Singles marry your soul mate. It makes life easier and you will enjoy each other's company without stress.
I love you!
Thanks for reading. God bless you. Cheers!

© Seun Oladele.

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