Thursday, 28 March 2019

Understanding the Reason and Season Why People Come Into Your Life.

One of the greatest mistakes many people have made in their lives is by giving a permanent seat to someone who temporarily came into their lives while some gave the wrong person a special seat in their life. 
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There's nothing as regrettable as this! 
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In case you don't know, people comes into our lives for different reasons and at different seasons. Never forget this philosophy! 
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Some would come into your life when you're nothing while some would come when you became something. 
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Some would come to help you become something while some would come to reduce your life to nothing. Some will come to stay while some would leave when there's nothing they can get from you anymore. 
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If God will help you, He will send someone into your life either as a mentor, a coach, a help mate or help meet. And if the devil would achieve his 3point agenda, he'd program the wrong person into your life. Some would come in form of Delilah while some would be like Judas Iscariot. 
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Be sensitive! 
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People comes into our lives for different reasons. Some would come to add to you, some would come to subtract from you, some would divide your life by zero and only few would multiply you. 
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Rather than allow the need of the moment in your life to wrongly place those who come into your life, be sensitive. 
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We all are emotional creatures. When you're lonely, you will meet someone to numb the feeling but if you meet the wrong person, they will betray you into ungodly relationship or destructive habits. 
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When all fingers are pointed at you to get married, several persons who looked like the potential suitor would come into your life. At this junction, many of you would place the wrong person in the right position. This is why many are heart broken, cheated and became single parents. 
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For every season of your life, you'll meet people of varying caliber and from all walks of life. You need understanding to rightly place them where they belong. 
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Until you have proven and tested people, never give them a special seat in your life. Some people are best treated as casual friends, some are just gist mate or fair-weather friend, only very few have the exclusive rights to be trusted as true friends. They exist but they're very rare. 
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Not everyone has come to stay in your life permanently. Don't give them a permanent seat. Not everyone has come with a good intention with their advice, taste their words before you swallow it hook, line and sinker. 
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Not everyone came with a good agenda, watch the kind of influence they exert over your life. If you make friends with an angry man, you'll learn his ways. 
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Before you hold anyone dear to your heart, check the season of your life to know the reason why they came. If you can't discern it clearly on this realm, go spiritual. Seek the face of God for guidance. 
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It is a tragedy in life to make your friends enemies and to make your enemy a friend. David prayed, "Lighten my eyes, lest I sleep the sleep of death". There are many unfriendly friends attached to many lives which only God can reveal the inward intent of their heart to you. 
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When you're feeling horny as a single person, you can meet a person that will fast track your journey to doom. Ask Amnon! Or God can send someone into your life to help you master control over your feelings. 
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Don't take people at face value. Anyone who betrays you into evil more than once, truly meant no good for you. 
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The only way to understand the role a person has come to play in your life is to study them. Don't allow emotional bliss to blind your sense of reasoning. Be patient. Be careful. And be prayerful. 
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The Holy Bible says, "Watch and pray, lest you fall into temptation". And towards the end of the Bible, it also stated that, "Be sober, be vigilant, because your adversary, the devil as a roaring lion is seeking for whom to devour".
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May the Lord grant you understanding about these truths. May you not hold the wrong person dear to your heart. 
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© Oluwamayowa Adeniyi.

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