Tuesday, 12 March 2019

WATCH HIS/HER ACTIONS.

Dear Singles or About-to-wed,
“In our actions are signs or predictions of who we are and what we might likely turn out to be in life.” - Abiodun Aremo
If he or she is your priority, it will show in your character.
Some actions are red flags of warning. Neglect them to your own detriment.
No love without a corresponding action. Action they said speak louder than voice. When you professed to love him or her; does your action say the same. If your actions are opposite then no love. It’s as simple as ABC.
Wherefore by their fruits ye shall know them.” Matthew 7: 20
Our actions are the fruits our lives produce which often show the content and quality of our heart and character.
You say you love her/him; then be ready to show it in commitment and responsibility. Don’t say it’s in your heart. No! No!! No!!! Love is meant to be given. How can I see what’s in your heart when am not a spirit. Show me in action and I’ll know you love me.
Love; it’s in our actions:
Show me your actions and I’ll know if you’ll beat your spouse in marriage.
Show me your actions and I’ll know if you’ll be stingy or greedy in marriage.
Show me your actions and I’ll know if you’ll be proud and domineering over your spouse in marriage.
Show me your actions and I’ll know if you’ll abuse your spouse in marriage.
Show me your actions and I’ll know if you’ll be submissive in marriage.
The list is on...
In Genesis 24, Eliazer had to watch the actions of Rebecca before concluding if she’ll be okay for Isaac. In our actions are signs or predictions of who we are and what we might likely turn out to be in life.
So my dear singles, pay attention to those actions of your intending partner.
Any action you cannot cope with and is endangering peace and love or threat to life; start addressing it now. Tell him or her in humility. Don’t wait till marriage.
SOME POSITIVE LOVE ACTIONS.
There is effective communication through all communication media.
There’s excitement and commendation.
Corrections are done in humility and love.
Both of you are proud of each other in the public. There’s is PDA among the two of you.
Ready to say sorry when wrong.
Willing to drop characters that are detriment to the marriage or relationship.
Not double or multi dating.
Not engaging in sexual immoralities.
Both are willing to sacrifice and give to each other.
The list is endless.
Be careful of hypocrites who are wolves in sheep clothing. Some can pretend to love you but inside they don’t. Pretence will only make it worse. What you don’t have; you cannot give.
Remember, a broken courtship is better than broken marriage.

©️ Abiodun Aremo.

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